My partner also met a soul love, only he doesn’t know that yet. He met her and it felt like he had known her all his life. They text and call each other, first secretly and now we are “temporarily” not living together to find a solution because I have indicated that we can not. Everything in me hurts when he is in contact with her and walks away from me because … it doesn’t concern me, it belongs to him and her. He shuts me out but says he doesn’t want to deal with her, he loves me and can’t and won’t miss me. It has nothing to do with cheating.
But I can’t handle it. I think he just asks something from me and doesn’t want to do anything about it to make it somewhat acceptable to me. He has become stronger and I am getting smaller.