Q1423. Fear, sadness, attraction, soulmates?

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A year ago I got to know a man, but in fact I soon discovered that he is not really my type of man, although I immediately found him attractive, and yet we continue to attract and repel each other because we are both insecure. We just don’t dare. He let me sit, and then I started thinking. we hardly know each other and yet he shows by means of a card that we still have a chance. But we have never had much contact and we are now one year later. We had already tried to close but it never really worked. We continue to find each other attractive, also in the intimate area. And just keep feeling it, and I couldn’t even have a relationship with another. I even got all kinds of physical stress complaints. I don’t even dare to meet him anymore. Then go block again and maybe he will. We are both very hurt by the past and just don’t dare to take it. And yet I feel that bond between us. He just continues his life nicely, and I won’t hear anything again for a few months. And yet he still makes contact. The problem is I can’t adapt to his life, we are not really a good match. And yet the connection that I have never felt this way, that I cannot let go of each other. My question is; is it better to let him go? And the distance is very large, and a real relationship will be difficult. How do you handle this ?? The problem is I can’t adapt to his life, actually we are not a good match. And yet the connection that I have never felt this way, that I cannot let go of each other. My question is; is it better to let him go? And the distance is very large, and a real relationship will be difficult. How do you handle this ?? The problem is I can’t adapt to his life, actually we are not a good match. And yet the connection that I have never felt this way, that I cannot let go of each other. My question is; is it better to let him go? And the distance is very large, and a real relationship will be difficult. How do you handle this ??