I met him six years ago. Both have been overjoyed, intensely happy .. Due to external circumstances and gossip, we are set against each other and we have blamed each other a lot. We seem to be unable to find a way back to each other .. He ignores me what hurts me .. I hurt him to want to get in touch .. I try to break free, but I can’t manage it .. I feel constant pain and a hole in my soul. He has fear of attachment, I fear of abandonment. How do I survive this, I feel so empty. I have given myself to him literally and figuratively, and it feels like he is taking me with him .. He does not want contact, but how do I get myself back?
This will always remain, you can never find yourself again.
Become powerful. Get mad at yourself. Choose yourself. It is you who makes the light shine in the water. The key to surrender lies in self-love.
In what ways have you tried to make contact?
Perhaps the person can be reached in a different way.
First try to let go, take a rest. Take care of yourself, choose yourself. Do you feel sadness? do you feel you have to cry let it go, it is a process. Most important: don’t forget yourself!