Q1318. Don’t understand anymore?

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Today I felt everything from his side, my tailbone burning like crazy and my entire kundalini. But really don’t want to know anything about him anymore and I am really into it! is attacking him. I can’t be calm at the moment, he has and he plays with my feelings. I know how close he is to me and that others feel it and then he suddenly feels nothing? I myself feel that it is because of his wife. But he is lying back and can’t trust him apparently because he talks through everything. What can I do in this situation? Because I am in a phase that I long for would want to make love to him and the whole day and now I am able to make him feel the same sorrow and pain with the main thing ‘to finish him off’ so someone tips? (Unknown) But really don’t want to know anything more about him and am really into it! is attacking him. I can’t be calm at the moment, he has and he plays with my feelings. I know how close he is to me and that others feel it and then he suddenly feels nothing? I myself feel that it is because of his wife. But he is lying back and can’t trust him apparently because he talks through everything. What can I do in this situation? Because I am in a phase that I long for would want to make love to him and the whole day and now I am able to make him feel the same sorrow and pain with the main thing ‘to finish him off’ so someone tips? (Unknown) But really don’t want to know anything more about him and am really into it! is attacking him. I can’t be calm at the moment, he has and he plays with my feelings. I know how close he is to me and that others feel it and then he suddenly feels nothing? I myself feel that it is because of his wife. But he is lying back and can’t trust him apparently because he talks through everything. What can I do in this situation? Because I am in a phase that I long for would want to make love to him and the whole day and now I am able to make him feel the same sorrow and pain with the main thing ‘to finish him off’ so someone tips? (Unknown)

Answer 1
Oops. This is a very difficult situation. I can tell that you are confused and very angry. You must first try to let go of that anger. You do not delight yourself and your twinflame. And then you have to take some distance and try to let go of the situation as a whole. Maybe it will take some time, that’s okay. You can feel the anger, but don’t get carried away. You write that he has a wife and lies / cheats, ai, another reason to take some distance. Certainly if this man makes fun of your feelings towards others. If so, he still has to learn A LOT, he still has a lot to grow in this life, twinflame or not. He will have to do this himself, because you must first release and heal all the anger. You are very hurt. He may well have acted that way out of pure fear, that is possible, but letting go remains important. If this person is really your twinflame, your story is probably not ready yet. But I would go on! keep this moment away because of: A) His behavior and B) He is married. Guilt & fear can cloud a lot, so you have to let everything settle down now. But firstly yourself. Not easy, you will have to keep going, no contact and just allow some time to pass. You can then reassess the situation. Give it for example half a year. A lot of strength with releasing. Not easy, you will have to keep going, no contact and just allow some time to pass. You can then reassess the situation. Give it for example half a year. A lot of strength with releasing. Not easy, you will have to keep going, no contact and just allow some time to pass. You can then reassess the situation. Give it for example half a year. A lot of strength with releasing.
(Unknown)

Answer 2
In one word: ANGST. That is what he is feeling now and he wants to run away from everything. Leave it, this is part of it. You are certainly not crazy, all the signs you got and knowing it is him; it’s all right. But he is not ready for it yet. My twinflame does the same. But I let him go. We don’t even see each other often anymore. And it’s good that way. I am at peace with it, and I feel that I am helping him in that way. Try to let go of your anger, throw it out, write it down, then burn it, scream, whatever. And then make sure you regain your own strength and release it. Then he will come back to you the fastest! Love.
(K)