With your soulmate, can you possess such an attraction that you do not experience with your own partner? What is the difference with a love affair? How do you experience this?
Yes if you come close to each other then your energies run together. You immediately feel good and then you get back home together. During the carnival I was standing next to her and my soul immediately started to laugh inside. I immediately felt at ease and it just felt fantastic.
And can you have a love relationship in addition to that soul love?
My opinion: All love relationships are different, whether it’s a soulmate with a twinflame, the baker, milkman, neighbor, member of the forum or anyone else, it doesn’t matter. The difference is that the characters are different. My baker or a forum member could understand me better than my twinflame. For example, my twinflame still does not understand that it is not a one-way street. By that I mean that the idea still exists that everything should go the way he has it in mind. And if I give my own opinion I am “contrary” and “obstinate” and “I do not want” etc. etc. Unfortunately he does not understand that I am also entitled to my own opinion, opinion and feeling and that he should respect it to have. I sometimes wonder: as compared I take it for granted that I say ‘yes and amen’ to everything he thinks, how his attitude actually is towards his partner. Would she swallow and take everything? As long as he does not want to show respect for my opinion, there is no question of a two-way street. It is very unfortunate that he does not see that nor does it have a negative effect on our relationship. I am afraid that as time goes on (he gets older) he becomes more stuck in his habit of thinking and maybe even worse.
Funny, with carnival I also stood next to my twinflame and I felt the same as the one from answer 1. And that’s how I always feel when he’s around. I have never had that with anyone else, it is very special and at the same time it feels very familiar, I come home to him, everything feels good. It is as if I have always known him.
When I think of my love or when I am with him, I feel timelessness. And I feel very happy and cheerful. I feel lucky. Just by being present. I just want to touch him, a hand or an arm around him. A glance says it all. At the same time there is also the knowledge that I cannot always be with him. But the first feeling is the above.
Answer 4: Maybe I was the one who came to your house at the carnival. It’s like you ring the bell and say hello here I am again without saying anything I also heard I wanted a relationship. Whether I said that or said I don’t know but I heard that. It was the first time that I was so close to her with the carnival at the bar. We were both tipsy and when she was there I suddenly became so cheerful from the inside out to be very special to experience it. And it felt like the most normal thing in the world for me. I also felt a divine connection right away.
Unfortunately I have to disappoint you Remco. My twinflame is called different and we were not at the bar. But I recognize everything else in your stories. It is hard to be connected to someone like that and never to be together. As for my twinflame and me; it is not yet our time, I know that and I am at peace with it. Nevertheless, I can still enjoy the contact intensely.