I am a woman in her late 30s and have known my twinflame for about 5 years. I love him very much, and I would have liked a relationship and even a baby! My twinflame already had a relationship and also chose that relationship, we will still get along with each other. Releasing has been incredibly difficult and, up to now, very difficult. After the meeting, I have never been in love with anyone else, and sometimes I doubt whether I still want to. Despite the fact that I have a beautiful life and a lot to be thankful for, I am not only sad about letting go of him but also about my desire to have children. Sometimes I am angry with myself that I am in this “waiting” position, and attack him. In the depths I know that it must all be that way, but I wonder if there are more people walking around, who had to let go of their child’s desire, due to the fact that they would have preferred to have a child with their twinflames? It just sometimes feels double lonely (and also as a double punishment). Is there anyone who has experience with this?
Hi dear companion, I am in the same situation, so I sympathize with you. My twin now has children with his wife and I have remained childless. I’ve had a hard time with it and often. I hope for you that there will still be a positive twist in your life that removes that nasty situation: perhaps a child with your twin in the near future? Perhaps still a child, because you meet someone who is not a twin, but a very nice soulmate of yours (the wonders are not over yet). Someone who already has children with whom you get a very nice bond? In any case, some gift. I am currently in it myself: I still hope for a nice gift. It is probably not going exactly as expected, but it certainly feels a lot better! So I wish you a nice gift!
Dear unknown, I find that really sad for you; for a woman it is very important to ‘have children’ for all sorts of reasons. It may or may not work for all sorts of reasons .. are you not together with the ‘good’ man, are you alone and will you continue to have children, do not give up. There are all kinds of good options at your age. Adoption, you are not too old for that, a foster child, working with children in all sorts of forms, bomb mother, think about it carefully, do not get stuck in what you wanted. raising a child alone is really hard, I have regularly done this in addition to busy work because my partner has such a full job (me too) but it gets used to it and is not impossible especially if you have a nice social network around you. It is also very easy to love a child, even if it does not come directly or indirectly from your stomach. if you really want to be there for that child, so you don’t just see it as a gift for you, but you really want to take responsibility for it. Raising children is never possible with a handbook, if you have a child you act accordingly, no matter where he comes from. And your soul love, if he chooses you, he is also there for that child, what else is that soul love that were? perhaps the soul love feeling helps you to realize your child’s desire. Again, listen to your heart, if you want you can do it. Success. (Unknown) if he chooses you, he is also for that child, what else is that soul love? perhaps the soul love feeling helps you to realize your child’s desire. Again, listen to your heart, if you want you can do it. Success. (Unknown) if he chooses you, he is also for that child, what else is that soul love? perhaps the soul love feeling helps you to realize your child’s desire. Again, listen to your heart, if you want you can do it. Success. (Unknown)
Yes, I think too, becoming a bomb mother. I did it too and found a party every day, independent mothering. Incidentally, the child (ie the soul) visited me. And then you will also find other mothers on your path, who are in exactly the same boat. You always get support and confirmation. And close friendship. (Who knows)
Hello Unknown, How nice to find fellow sufferers here. I have the same problem. I hope that twinflame and I will come together someday, but I am afraid that by that time I will no longer be fertile (maybe I will be 75 !?). Now I am considering becoming pregnant through a donor. Sex with another person goes too far for me … (Unknown)
Respect ladies! (Unknown)
Answer 6 Conversely, the situation also exists. Knowing that I am not with my twin and also not really happy with my child’s father, I feel waiting. After a miscarriage of the second and subsequent a huge relationship crisis and an identity crisis of mine (among others Due to emigration), I still have a child’s desire, but no longer with my current partner. A second child is not a must for me, but as long as the wish is there, it remains a living subject in me and my life. (Unknown)