I recently read an article about soul love in a magazine with a reference to this site. I never knew that there was such a thing as a twinflame, but now that I read all this, many pieces of the puzzle fall into place. That’s how I got to know a boy 3 years ago and fell in love at first glance. I couldn’t think of anything else but him. And every time I wanted to talk to him, I became very clumsy and my heart rattled. The unusual thing was that a few days before his meeting I dreamed that he was kissing me. While I didn’t even know him then !! Really very strange .. I had only seen him once in a photo (because I know him through other friends). Later, when I hadn’t seen him for a few months, I started dreaming about him again. I dreamed three times that I would meet him in my own hometown. And that didn’t seem obvious to me, because he lives 150 km from me. But still it happened a few weeks later .. On a beautiful summer day I met him, about a km from my house, I was completely perplexed! He hardly seemed surprised, but his eyes started to shine. And so he comes along more often in my dreams. Once I dreamed that I would go to a party, wherever he was, while I would not expect him. I actually did not want to go to that party, but I went after that dream anyway. And who did I meet? Exactly, my twin (or whatever it may be)! Now after 3 years we still have occasional contact. Although it is currently a bit less, because he has been abroad for six months for his work. On the one hand it is difficult to go without him for so long, but on the other hand it gives me peace of mind that we have a time out. He has been rather confusing lately. He kept trying to make contact with me and seemed really happy to see me, but when I got too close he quickly got up. The last time I saw him was very strange … I finally had the courage to ask why he did this and why he hardly wanted to touch me. When I wanted to kiss him on his cheeks, he stepped back. He could hardly describe what was there (he does not express himself so easily), only said that there was a barrier between us and he could not explain how and what of it. He also made little effort for that, he quickly made sure he got away. Now I wonder: Is he my twin or not? Do I think that maybe only because I would like him to be? But on the other side; those dreams are not for nothing? That can’t be a coincidence? At the moment I often dream again that I will catch a glimpse of him, but I cannot get in touch with him. I notice that I am drawn to him like a magnet. My feeling says that he wants nothing more than to be with me, but that he is afraid of something .. What would he be so afraid of? I hope someone wants to think with me .. I notice that I am drawn to him like a magnet. My feeling says that he wants nothing more than to be with me, but that he is afraid of something .. What would he be so afraid of? I hope someone wants to think with me .. I notice that I am drawn to him like a magnet. My feeling says that he wants nothing more than to be with me, but that he is afraid of something .. What would he be so afraid of? I hope someone wants to think with me ..
I myself have experienced that too, being unable to let go of a girl after eye contact and then always thinking about her. The reason I acted so aloof as a boy is the overwhelming feeling you feel with such a person, that makes you wing-dependent and dependent. At that time I already had a girlfriend and nice things and you don’t want to disturb that. But that intense feeling I have towards that girl cannot be suppressed, it seems like a kind of addiction to that person, and that makes you insecure, especially when you give in to it, then you are forced to make choices with your feeling, while you may well have everything done with someone else. Especially when you start expressing your feelings to each other, it becomes intense. He probably wants to prevent this. Strength (Unknown)
Thank you for the answer! Especially when you have a relationship, these kind of deep feelings are difficult for someone else. Then you think you have everything well organized and you meet your twin, which turns your whole life upside down. I think I have to add a few more details. My twin is single, but not me. Would my relationship be his barrier? That he is afraid that he will make me unhappy by turning everything upside down? Or afraid that I will make him unhappy because I could not give him everything? I have been on the point of making a choice several times and have continued to choose my current relationship, but I still cannot let go of my twin. He’s in my head 24 hours a day. (Unknown)
That very intense feeling is so intense, that is different from normal love. It is frightening that you have everything for someone like that, you always want to be together, but that is not possible in practice. That constant struggle, that feeling that dominates everything and what you try to slow down because it controls your life. Maybe he feels that too and thinks that as long as you have someone else he will be able to put you off somewhat. That struggle makes it so confusing. (Unknown)