Today I saw my twinflame again and it was ball again; repel and attract. Especially shedding on his part. I can’t take it anymore, he always touches me so that I feel deeply sad. And he continues to enjoy his life. I have had enough of it that I have made a firm decision not to call, to text or to contact him in any other way. I didn’t do all this often, but now I really want to stop it altogether. If he wants to see me, he will call himself. It is nice and easy; he never has to make an effort for something and I am always the two of us who are in trouble. I want to stand stronger in my shoes and look for good tips for this. Anyone?
Find this love in yourself. Part of him is in you. Have peace with this part, find happiness in it and it will attract. . (Unknown)
I think you have already given the best solution: no more contact. You don’t need tips, I think you’re strong enough of yourself. Really, we have much more power than we think we have. (Who knows)
It is as if I hear myself, I recognize this feeling very well, and I have a lot of trouble with it !!! I wish I had good tips, but believe it or not, I have been asking this question for 4 years !! every time I want to let it go, something comes in and I somehow fails. nice that soul love !!. Maybe one day we will have enough self-esteem and can really let it go, I admire the people who can and can continue to do so. I don’t have a real answer to your question, but there is at least 1 who is struggling with the same question as you !! Good luck and lots of love (Unknown)
It is not about letting go, but about growing, towards each other..that is about it and that gives periods of letting go to let your twin find his own way. (Unknown)
Thank you for thinking along. I asked the question. Maybe I know very well what to do; indeed taking distance. I do too and it suits me well. Every time he comes to my mind, I consciously start thinking about something else and tell him to grow. He hurt me quite Sunday with his words and attitude, and I don’t feel like it anymore. There is no doubt that he is my twin, but that does not mean that he can just do anything with me. I do notice that now that I draw the line, more signals are coming towards me that indicate “us”. Next week I will meet him again and then I will keep appropriate distance. (Unknown)
We have since seen each other again and he approached me on his own. I felt his ego that he still can’t let go, but there is so much love underneath that I almost had to cry. I feel that love shine through his whole attitude, see it in his eyes and hear it behind his words. How to deal with this now; I keep letting him go, sending him all my love in my mind every day and wish him an instructive path of life. In the meantime, I lead my own life in the best possible way that makes me happy, but that one piece (he) will always be missing. But I comfort myself with the knowledge that he is always there, just IN me, and I in him. (Unknown)