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My love and I were together, very short. It went out and I was really sick for 3 months. He was with me two weeks ago. All the contact we have – e-mail, text and now one time in person – is sweet and soft. It is what it is and that’s good. There has been no sexual contact or anything. A hug. Now he told that there is another for him. Since then I have really let go in love. I feel a lot for him, real emotional love. He knows that too. And he is happy with that, he says. I don’t feel jealous (anymore) and I don’t want to be with him. Yet I wonder how it is possible that you are both alone and even together and that one of them still chooses another. I understand that he was not ready for a relationship with me and did not find what he was looking for in me … I think I am quite, despite the fact that I keep learning, of course. A relationship between us was really too early. He was left with many unprocessed things. But why then with someone else? I understood that he would have remained alone for a while. Why did he suddenly feel no love for me anymore. That is difficult for me to place. You don’t want to analyze everything, but I still wonder how you feel about this.

Answer 1
Yes it is, you are just healer than he is right now, I think. Don’t blame him either. Perhaps the painful thing is that he has to heal with someone else and not with you. But I know from experience that, suppose he would be with you now, you will be annoyed by him because you are already a level higher in your consciousness. And then perhaps you would have parted and it would be even more difficult. After all, you must both be on the same level of consciousness before it becomes something, twinflame or not. (Who knows)

Answer 2
If he is not ready, he would not want to be with someone for whom he has feelings. Maybe the other person is his excuse for which he may not have a feeling and is therefore safer. Maybe he already had that person that you didn’t know about and this is the way he presents it. It may also be that he says that to come loose. Either way, he’s not ready. You don’t want someone who’s not ready to be with you? Your life passes every hour. Keep him at a distance and let him be for what he is (maybe even a good friend). Love yourself. That is what you love in him, yourself. If he can’t give you anything, let him go. If he is meant for you, he will come back, if not, he will never be yours. Don’t be sad, life always comes out surprisingly. Enjoy that love in you. He’s in you. Let him figure out what he feels by releasing him. Maybe he realizes he can’t live without you. AND if he doesn’t, then you don’t want to be with him. I then let go of my great love, because he was with someone else. He came back to me. Find that power in you to say “I want him to be happy and I want to release him.” This is all part of the process, be calm, and do not go along too much with heavy emotions. You really deserve someone who does everything to be with you. (Unknown) Find that power in you to say “I want him to be happy and I want to release him.” This is all part of the process, be calm, and do not go along too much with heavy emotions. You really deserve someone who does everything to be with you. (Unknown) Find that power in you to say “I want him to be happy and I want to release him.” This is all part of the process, be calm, and do not go along too much with heavy emotions. You really deserve someone who does everything to be with you. (Unknown)

Answer 3
I think it was not yet your time that he was your twinflame. Perhaps you still have things to learn separately from each other and that can also be experiences with other partners. Painful but unavoidable. (Unknown)

Answer 4
There may be various reasons that he does not yet recognize the love between you or the feeling between you. Although I and my twin are not at the same level, I am learning to deal with him. I can tell you, let it go gradually and live your own life, no matter how difficult it is. Learn to stand on your own two feet without any dependence on your twin. It is a very difficult process but you get stronger as you go. Set your goals and strive for them. Strength though. (Unknown)

Answer 5
If you are soulmates or twinflames of each other, it does not always mean that it must be a form of relationship. It is possible that not everyone keeps this in mind. I think you should find out for yourself what you want and how you want to fill it in. Make sure you stay with yourself and become stronger. (Unknown)