Q0665. How do I deal with this?

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After working with him for a year, I lost him. A lot has happened but nothing physical. His presence was enough for me. Furthermore, I have always kept him at a distance or more or less pushed away. He wanted to get closer, but I doubted his intention and I didn’t dare. He was able to keep private and business divorced and I couldn’t. I couldn’t handle his mirror and didn’t understand the message at the time. In the meantime I dreamed about him and I had sleepless nights. Things went bad at work I was insecure and did everything to make him happy, but in the meantime I was also ugly to push him away. He is my dream partner. Confident, handsome, witty, smart and sweet but also a rude bag sometimes and briefly through the corner. It has cost me a lot of energy and my job. Because of the feelings in love, I was unable to concentrate. I chose peace and safety. I think consciously because I was in a roller coaster and I could not get out. He has now left the company. In the meantime, I cannot forget him while I have clearly chosen a different direction. By this I mean my current relationship. My current partner knows some of this. I find this enormously bad for him, but he has noticed it on me. He is my earthly love and is always there when I need him and that is why I love him. Only what I feel around my soul love is such a strange thing. I only miss him a lot more now that I no longer have anything from him. No voice, no photo, no mail, no phone number, nothing at all. This is the best but I would really like to know how he is doing. If only I had something from him … I sent him another card to close the book and wish him a good life, but I can’t get him out of it … This was the first real confession that actually addressed him … I’m sure he can switch faster than me and I can forget and continue faster. After all, nothing has ever happened. I try to get back to myself but he is still in my mind every day and meanwhile I just have a family at home…. I’m disappointed by myself. You’ve lost that loving feeling. I wish it was true!!!! Like tips ..! After all, nothing has ever happened. I try to get back to myself but he is still in my mind every day and meanwhile I just have a family at home…. I’m disappointed by myself. You’ve lost that loving feeling. I wish it was true!!!! Like tips ..! After all, nothing has ever happened. I try to get back to myself but he is still in my mind every day and meanwhile I just have a family at home…. I’m disappointed by myself. You’ve lost that loving feeling. I wish it was true!!!! Like tips ..!

Answer 1
If he knows that you are twinflame and you have recognized each other, he cannot forget you. If you don’t know much about him, it may still come. I didn’t know anything about my twinflame, but already a lot more, where he lives .. etc .. and I don’t get that from Google. I also wanted to know everything about him, but I did not find out, perhaps because I was not ready. But at some point things happen and you get signs and then your feeling tells you something is right. (Unknown)

Answer 2
I cannot give you any tips, I am in a similar boat. I also regret the whole situation, you can’t do anything about it. You have to go with it. I notice that I am becoming more and more distant from my partner and when he talks about our future or tells me how he got on with me, I really feel a huge…. But I still can’t figure out how to tell him, I think it’s very scary. (Unknown)

Answer 3
Well it is possible, I have lost that loving feeling, I really could never have imagined in all those years … .. I am very disappointed … .. in myself I think … that I once thought that “The True” existed, my other me … my twin … I have recovered myself and came home, I have had that feeling for years, I still have that “home” is now gone … in “the black hole” I think, all of a sudden foetsie … kind of Fata Morgana, yes and that is swallowing …. it feels empty … very empty … (Unknown)

Answer 4
Now a few months later I notice that the place is getting. It doesn’t matter what happened. I have learned a lot from it. Especially putting myself first. I will never lose myself like that again. I’m worth it. I am sensitive but that doesn’t matter. I enjoy as I did as a child. Maybe because I finally embraced myself. That must have been the lesson. Life is too short to grieve. There is no high point without a low point. Setbacks are there to learn and to draw lessons and not to get down. So I’m going to make it a nice day again. What shall I do next? Have a nice day. (Unknown)

Answer 5
In response to answer 4: I could not have put this more nicely into words! This is precisely the insight that I received after seeing my soul love. It is as if I was really shaken by him this time, because now I suddenly see how much I had lost myself in that love for him. Sometimes you can immerse yourself in it so that you completely forget what it is really about: learn to love yourself, embrace yourself at number one and embrace yourself. Regardless of all the bad habits. Only now do I see that I don’t need anything or anyone outside of myself to feel that love in me. I can also evoke that feeling without him, so that he ultimately gets the role that he deserves: being an addition, not a filling for the emptiness in me. What a joy and what a freedom to see my own greatness. (Unknown)