Q0570. Confrontation?

Unknown

My twinflame and I see each other almost daily and are also very “aware” of each other. That went well for years, but since the last collision I have had problems with it. Not to see him, but I no longer manage to be normal, to be myself, while I have always succeeded after previous confrontations. I have always been open and vulnerable, but he kept on striking. Now I have the feeling that I am pulling some sort of protective armor around me when he comes close, unconsciously, as an automatic reaction to make me look so open and vulnerable, I think, it is such a one-way street. But I do not want that at all, I am not at all, I do not like playing hide and seek and would prefer to have ‘normal’ contact again, as it used to be, but somehow that is no longer possible. Apparently the last confrontation was the well-known “last drop”. For me it also feels like he first has to make something up because he has! I was “touched” several times, hurt, while I also realize that that is nonsense of course, because after all we have no obligation towards each other in the earthly. I’m not sure what to do with it, let go haha…. I understand that, but it feels very uncomfortable if you are confronted with each other so regularly and you cannot ‘just’ communicate about it. while I also realize that of course that is nonsense because, after all, we have no obligation towards each other in the earthly. I’m not sure what to do with it, let go haha…. I understand that, but it feels very uncomfortable if you are confronted with each other so regularly and you cannot ‘just’ communicate about it. while I also realize that of course that is nonsense because, after all, we have no obligation towards each other in the earthly. I’m not sure what to do with it, let go haha…. I understand that, but it feels very uncomfortable if you are confronted with each other so regularly and you cannot ‘just’ communicate about it.

Answer 1
Hello dear companion. I recognize your intense desire / longing for contact, for the earthly, for sharing and talking about it. I recognize it so clearly. That desire just burns in your heart … .. You can hardly bear the patience anymore. But can it also be necessary that you stop attracting? That it is time for your twinflame to go trek yourself? To feel what it’s like when your other half denies you? To find out that when the other person “falls away,” it turns out that your feelings are deeper than you have always told yourself? To find out that you CAN’T run away from it? Is that perhaps the point where you were working? For him to discover that it is time to honestly look at his feelings, to listen to his inner voice? It is so hard to keep faith in the universe, it can be such a struggle that you sometimes wonder what you are doing it for. I sympathize with you, my dear companion, because it is the most difficult assignment in your life, if not the most impossible: the ‘letting go’ of your twin. But, despite your fear of losing, remember that your twinflame will always come back to you. These souls CANNOT be without it! each other. They need each other to grow !!!! That is what they want and together with the universe they will do their utmost for that. Only your patience is so terribly tested. I hope that my twinflame will eventually find out too. XXX (L.) that you sometimes wonder what you are doing it for. I sympathize with you, my dear companion, because it is the most difficult assignment in your life, if not the most impossible: the ‘letting go’ of your twin. But, despite your fear of losing, remember that your twinflame will always come back to you. These souls CANNOT be without it! each other. They need each other to grow !!!! That is what they want and together with the universe they will do their utmost for that. Only your patience is so terribly tested. I hope that my twinflame will eventually find out too. XXX (L.) that you sometimes wonder what you are doing it for. I sympathize with you, my dear companion, because it is the most difficult assignment in your life, if not the most impossible: the ‘letting go’ of your twin. But, despite your fear of losing, remember that your twinflame will always come back to you. These souls CANNOT be without it! each other. They need each other to grow !!!! That is what they want and together with the universe they will do their utmost for that. Only your patience is so terribly tested. I hope that my twinflame will eventually find out too. XXX (L.) These souls CANNOT be without it! each other. They need each other to grow !!!! That is what they want and together with the universe they will do their utmost for that. Only your patience is so terribly tested. I hope that my twinflame will eventually find out too. XXX (L.) These souls CANNOT be without it! each other. They need each other to grow !!!! That is what they want and together with the universe they will do their utmost for that. Only your patience is so terribly tested. I hope that my twinflame will eventually find out too. XXX (L.)

Answer 2
I also posted the following about another message: The person closest to you is hurt the most. Your twin feels confused by the feelings he has and denies them. The easiest way to deny is to hurt the other person by, for example, denying that he has felt something for you. Continue to rely on the feeling you have felt and let your twin value. Let him find out for himself what he felt for you, you can’t push him in here. Because you keep meeting each other, he continues to find it difficult to deal with his feelings. Greet him and see for yourself how he responds to this. If he doesn’t want to talk, give him the space. If you keep coming to him and want to have a whole conversation, he feels more or less “obliged” to immediately choose you. Keep thinking positively, otherwise the process will only take longer. Suc6! (Alicia S.)

Answer 3
Could it be that the tension spring becomes too tight, causing frustration because you cannot be together? And that as a result of this the earthly contact becomes too difficult? that you can no longer deal with each other “normally” (Unknown)

Answer 4
Yes, the tension of that tension spring, normal contact without ‘more’ is not possible anymore, I have also noticed, I am glad that I have dear friends / souls around me who support me, see how it goes and hope that there is still a lot of love coming my way .. dear greetings (M.)
Response I am the questioner; thanks for your answers. We have not had any conversations for a long time and I am not going to pull for a long time, I think it will take time. (Unknown)

Answer 5
I think that it will always be difficult, but that when you see each other, you should allow time to find a way. I think if you have it, that it is no longer difficult, that you will be supported. (Unknown)

Answer 6
Answer 5; You know, the crazy thing is, I never found it difficult, except after a confrontation, but I always recovered from it. That seems to have changed now, something IS changed and not just with me. (Unknown)