Q0494. Second choice?

Unknown

I read that people call themselves 2nd choice; by that they mean that their twin has a permanent partner (married) and they come as twin as 2nd, and cannot accept that. 1st; as a twin you don’t come in 2nd, whatever the situation; in my experience that is ego if you think so. you feel exactly that this is not the case. and your twin doesn’t feel that way either; it is unimportant.

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I agree that this is not the case. It is not about where you stand. You can have an earthly love and a twinflame. This can co-exist and be equally important. The feeling for both can be an equally deep love. But there is a deeper, more real contact with the twinflame. (Unknown)

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Your twin is your 1st choice but comes in 2nd place in real life if you have a married twin, that is not an ego that is reality, just a sober look at things as they are. (Unknown)

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Comment on answer 1, I cannot imagine that you love your partner as much as your twinflame, I wonder how that works? I can imagine that you have to work things out with your partner, that it is not yet time, but that you should keep the same amount… no I do not believe I can. (Unknown)

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Love for your twin is infinite, is so much more, cannot be compared with an ordinary love. that goes to your toes and back to your toes. even though you have a great relationship it is not comparable to love for a twin. (Unknown)

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Love does not diminish if you also feel love for others. Thus love is infinite and as such infinitely divisible without diminishing. Attention, care, money, living space, time … you can share them all and if you share them, you divide them, and it becomes less. But not love !!! Love is an inexhaustible divine source, you can feel love for everyone, without this diminishing for one of them, that is the true beauty of love. So you do not have to leave your own partner when you also feel love for someone else. You therefore love your own partner no less, and you yourself are the one who decides what you want to do with that love. (Unknown)

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Yes, guides from above in search of truth. (Unknown)

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This is my opinion: Your twinflame / soulmate comes first when you meet them. On the contrary, you must learn a life lesson from your current married partner and try to process your past etc. Most people have a relationship when they meet their twinflame / soulmate. It’s all about doing things to overcome, learning … how do you want to go to be with your twinflame? It is also a learning process, don’t forget this! (Alicia)