Q0466. My soul love evades me?

Unknown

Four years ago I met my Twin Soul. We both knew / felt it. We never had a relationship, but we didn’t have to. Only now I have not seen him, I am a woman, for three years. He avoids me, never answers emails. I just don’t get it, I just have my own life, don’t force me. while if I once spoke to him, he definitely wanted to keep in touch.

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If you suffer from the repulsive behavior of your soul love then remember that it is about his or her fear (s). The moment someone shoots in fear, he or she becomes unconscious. That is the moment when the ego takes over and rejects everything and everyone who tries to get close. With all kinds of excuses, lies, conceals, violence or whatever. It doesn’t matter what he or she has to do for it as long as you manage to keep you away from his or her heart. It is important to stay with yourself very well if you are attacked by the ego of your soul love. Do your best not to respond to those attacks, stay aware that the other person is attacking you out of his or her fear. It is not meant to be personal and has absolutely nothing to do with you but with something from his or her childhood. Or with things that happened in previous relationships. Because you are closest to his or her heart, you are the one to first respond to their fear and anger. The rejection will continue until he or she has developed sufficient self-love, faith, self-confidence and strength. (Unknown)

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I am also very bothered by that repulsive behavior, still despite everything; despite the fact that I understand it, feel compassion for it; am full of love. yet I don’t want to approve. even though you have suffered terribly, you always have a choice, stay in it, slap around you or jump out and now. Your twin can help you with this. contact, small contact does not come together, also keep a distance, you can solve a huge karma together. that must come from your side because that is the problem. for me that also feels very difficult but not impossible. being vulnerable, that is precisely the case with your twin … if you don’t, you can never really come together … … in a distant future (Unknown)

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My twin and I made it difficult for each other … I divorced my twin because I wanted him so badly with me .. hopefully he understands that .. it’s actually when I read it that way again .. my twin did the opposite .. pushing and pulling .. masculine and feminine..and yes you have a choice, both..sometimes it is also just a lack of clarity over and over again due to caution, then you misinterpret, fear / sadness soon comes around look, if only you could talk to each other, write, mail, no more misunderstandings .. hopefully we will get that far. (Unknown)

Answer I recognize
the need to communicate with your twinsoul through words. But recently I have also discovered other ways of communicating, remotely, through thoughts and through my body. If you realize that your twin is actually always within your reach, you might miss it a little less. We all need to get a little more free from the material and to practice ourselves in mental communication. We have been able to do it, but we are all a bit forgotten. (Unknown)

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Who am I to push my twin in a direction, if he is happy then I have to be happy with that too, then it is good and I hope that my twin supports that too .. we belong together and that stays that way .. even though I almost never see him, my own relationship is over and I am saddened by that but gradually, .. sometimes I come across him and that reminds me a lot, so much love that I still have today feel him, even though I see that we are both having a hard time and I cry on the inside .. but I continue to love him and that is not a trait of stubborn persistence or so on; I can do nothing else, he is me and I am him and together we are one, one heart, one soul, one love couple … love (Unknown)

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Message to my twinflame, I thought it was my heart that kept me away from my twinflame, but it was my ego, my wish to persuade the other to come to me comes from my ego, my heart wants my twinflame experience, want to be with him, no matter what .. my ego was very strong, he fooled me again, handsome of myself to have such a big ego, I worked on it for quite a few years ! built up with sorrow, pain, ashamed trust, I have made it very difficult for us .. I am sorry, you absolutely do not want to hurt anymore..thank you dear twin … love (Unknown)

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My twin did the same for me but I can’t solve it. it’s a piece of karma between us where he has to start jumping and jumping (and then I don’t have to run away) and then we have to accept each other. I think we have to go through that. probably, much later … there will come a time when you can laugh about it. I think you can get used to that tension. (Unknown)

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Karma? how do you know what’s about karma, something from a past life or something? my intuition told me so much when I first met my twin that my twin turned my back on me as if my twin didn’t want to see me anymore as if he was angry, I thought then; now he turns his back on me again, but if I am very honest I would not know if that was karma .. something from a past life? if you are not aware of how can you solve that .. I only know one thing that he is my love forever .. no matter how it goes (Unknown)

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I recognize this too. My twin avoids and ignores me wherever he can. If we meet each other by accident, it scares me enormously. Yet there has always been contact on a non-physical level through dreams. We talk to each other through dreams and this is so clear that I am sure that he has dreamed that and what he is communicating, that that is what he actually wants to say to me. He is full of fear and I have released him, but love will never pass. Neither will another person come soon, that is not true in my opinion. Furthermore, I can only work on myself and have faith that he will get the insight when the time is right and we will be reunited. (Unknown)