Q0427. What if your soulmate doesn’t see you like that?

Birgitta

When I first saw my soulmate, I knew immediately. He doesn’t see it that way, we have a very strong attraction, which he always tries to avoid. The strange thing is that he cannot live without me either, if he does not want to see me he must walk down with his head in order not to be attracted. According to my medium, my soulmate will get a vision in two months where everything becomes clear to him, I hope so. I dream about him every night and keep thinking about him. I often feel him at a distance and he feels me too and that makes him anxious. My medium says that he is certain that we are coming together and I hope and wait full of longing. Love

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Hello Brigitta, Nice that you have met your soul love and that you are already doing so consciously. However, be careful not to go too far on mediums their – otherwise well-intended – advice. I also had the firm message of someone 2 years ago got that we (my twinflame half) and I would meet again around this time and astrologically this seemed to be quite correct. Well, not so. Everything is still happening … nothing. The universe simply says: “We determine when you meet again, weigh things up and we just speculate further”. I recently made a composite of my twin and I, and a hefty voltage aspect emerges, a couple of transits that could cause a lot of tension if we were to see each other again.

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dear brigitta, handy such a medium, I try to feel and experience it all myself, my head and heart are full of love for my twin, I also think about him all day long, actually he has been part of my life for years, every minute of the day / night, I also hope that I will soon understand something more about the meaning of all this, because I feel that I am making good choices but why it is not clear to me .. I know for example that I am sure that I have to do this but why, feel that I have agreed with ..? already for this life .. I knew that very young and that is now coming back more clearly .. I remember that I had conversations with above about this, about this time in our lives .. yes sometimes it seems like being trapped, you wants so much further, out, to experience that greater space and love .. horoscopes ?; outer planets I have not much with it, just let them go slowly or fast, it doesn’t matter, once they look good! (Unknown)

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Well, now that I am reading this question again, I suddenly have to think of Rainer Werner Fassbinder’s film Welt am Draht, the Matrix avant la lettre (finally released on DVD) in which the protagonist lives in a world full of wooden moving people. Only 1 woman still remembers him “up there” and she says just as woodily that she loves him, haha. She still has to gain another experience, like the other people around her. She just behaves in the very last scene as the main character and they are a couple together. My twin also has to gain another experience. By the way, I also indirectly benefit from that, the better he gets that experience, the better the final scene … 🙂 (Unknown)

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How do you know that your twin still has to gain an experience, isn’t it you who still needs to gain another experience? I always read all sorts of things about our twin always having to do something, but what do you do yourself? (Unknown)

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You can see that from the kind of life he leads, the younger age, the same experiences I had 15 years ago, he must now go through that, he must now grow from that. The woman from the Welt am Draht film also had to piece, the main character was already ready and could only wait for her. I almost got a substitute stomach ulcer, haha. But you see, he still has to grow, through the children, through work, a karmic marriage, a wife who prepares him, all those things together. I have already done all those things, finished all the assignments, am much more aware and more complete. Although I do feel that his soul growth is now going at a much faster pace than mine, because at that age he already got to know his twinflame and I didn’t. But yes I was born again … There is always boss above boss 🙂 (Unknown)