Q0411. Am I entitled to a life of my own?

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Since a year ago I met my soulmate. I didn’t know but he went to great lengths to let me know. After a miserable divorce with a child as a stake and money of course, I had no faith whatsoever in men. I got help from an agency and he worked there as a social assistant. My neck hairs were always standing when he came to check on the house and the child. Only at the last time did I realize that I loved him. He was fired and was not allowed by his boss to stay in contact with me and that was that. But in the evening my body started to glow and I got excited against my will. I knew a lot about what he could do with his mind; Eventually he is constantly with me and he reads my thoughts and feelings and owee if another man finds me interesting or sweet as a girlfriend. Then the house is too small in the evening, then he becomes bossy in bed and demands that I have sex with him; that’s how it feels every time. I always said I am my own boss and have my own will and yet I cannot get rid of the feeling that he controls me. HE KNOWS ALL OF ME and I am tired of that. But he doesn’t release anything about him. Where does he live does he love me does he have another I know nothing and after all the misery I can’t live without him. But I want my own life back. Where does he live does he love me does he have another I know nothing and after all the misery I can’t live without him. But I want my own life back. Where does he live does he love me does he have another I know nothing and after all the misery I can’t live without him. But I want my own life back.

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I can be very brief about this. This man is not a soulmate of yours. You probably have karma from this past with this man, but a soulmate does NOT treat you like that. Someone who is spiritually developed far enough is also not. And yes, you are entitled to your own life. Loosen up. Be it spiritually or literally, by breaking with him. Really, if I read your story like this, it will come across as simple to me. Light and love for you. (Juul)

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Fine! And I hope for you that it still happens in this life. I have always hated ‘maybe the next life’. After all, we now live in this. Light and love for you! (Juul)

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I don’t know when you wrote this, I hope you managed to get rid of him. Idd it’s not your twinflame. His love for you is lost. He wants to be in control. It is in your hands by choosing your own life. (Frenschy)