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Why don’t you ever call each other? Why do we run around it like that? WHY? if you both feel that the other is that true pure love for you, you see divine love in that other. Why is that not allowed, just because the other person is married? What is wrong with love and why does it always have to go with so much effort? Love between twinflames cannot be stopped, nothing can get in between !! magnetism !! Yes you can be friends and love each other, but don’t touch each other because then you go too far. That’s too crazy for words. If you love each other then that is also part of it !! It drives me crazy … Those are the norms and values of the world, the limits that we as humans have set with each other … divine love is endless. WHY ARE WE SO DIFFICULT?
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Well Well Well where did the Respect go? twinflames are not together for a relationship, understand that. And certainly not to break another marriage. (Unknown)
Answer Why are we so difficult ??? Yes I sometimes wonder … Anyway .. I am also in the situation that my soul love is married … And no matter how difficult I find it .. she has a husband and children she once chose .. And she has certain responsibilities with that .. And she chooses .. I can’t fight that happiness .. I don’t want to fight that either .. First of all I have to respect and accept her choice. Second: It is an unequal battle. Third: If she is happy with her family, who am I to say she will be happier with me? Fourth: I wish her all the happiness of the world, and if she is the happiest in this way, then I must actually be very happy that she has chosen her greatest happiness? Because that is ultimately what I want for her .. That I am not the one with whom she wants to experience happiness, that actually hurts me .. But in the end that is also a bit of selfishness from me … Because I also want me to be happy and love her most .. But it f! eit that she does not choose me I have to accept … Sure sometimes I sometimes feel like a Plug .. And I wonder hundreds of times WHY ?? And of course I wonder if she’s actually really happy, and doesn’t just act and stay with her family because it ‘belongs’ because it ‘has to’ … But I can’t make that choice for her .. She’s the only one who knows for herself what is best .. AND if, for example, she does not choose me because she does not dare to choose, because of the consequences that she might not be able to oversee, she acts out of fear .. But I cannot do anything about that either .. She is the only one who can compete with regard to her fears .. And of course I think: What has been learned (so to act as it should be) is difficult to unlearn .. But in the end intuition is stronger than education .. And Ultimately, being happy is a choice. And everyone can only make it for themselves … And the only thing you can do if someone does not choose you, accept it and move on with your own life … No matter how difficult that is .. Love is complicated, you can put your finger there not to impose, to hold on to, or to force it .. And when the other person finally realizes that he or she wants to go ahead for you, that person will contact you .. Or come back into your life .. In the meantime you have to let go in love , and continue to enjoy your life .. That is very important !! (Unknown) And of course I think: What has been learned (so acting as it should ‘) is difficult to learn .. But in the end intuition is stronger than upbringing .. And in the end being happy is a choice. And everyone can only make it for themselves … And the only thing you can do if someone does not choose you, accept it and move on with your own life … No matter how difficult that is .. Love is complicated, you can put your finger there not to impose, to hold on to, or to force it .. And when the other person finally realizes that he or she wants to go ahead for you, that person will contact you .. Or come back into your life .. In the meantime you have to let go in love , and continue to enjoy your life .. That is very important !! (Unknown) And of course I think: What has been learned (so acting as it should ‘) is difficult to learn .. But in the end intuition is stronger than upbringing .. And in the end being happy is a choice. And everyone can only make it for themselves … And the only thing you can do if someone does not choose you, accept it and move on with your own life … No matter how difficult that is .. Love is complicated, you can put your finger there not to impose, to hold on to, or to force it .. And when the other person finally realizes that he or she wants to go ahead for you, that person will contact you .. Or come back into your life .. In the meantime you have to let go in love , and continue to enjoy your life .. That is very important !! (Unknown) But in the end intuition is stronger than upbringing. And in the end being happy is a choice. And everyone can only make it for themselves … And the only thing you can do if someone does not choose you, accept it and move on with your own life … No matter how difficult that is .. Love is complicated, you can put your finger there not to impose, to hold on to, or to force it .. And when the other person finally realizes that he or she wants to go ahead for you, that person will contact you .. Or come back into your life .. In the meantime you have to let go in love , and continue to enjoy your life .. That is very important !! (Unknown) But in the end intuition is stronger than upbringing. And in the end being happy is a choice. And everyone can only make it for themselves … And the only thing you can do if someone does not choose you, accept it and move on with your own life … No matter how difficult that is .. Love is complicated, you can put your finger there not to impose, to hold on to, or to force it .. And when the other person finally realizes that he or she wants to go ahead for you, that person will contact you .. Or come back into your life .. In the meantime you have to let go in love , and continue to enjoy your life .. That is very important !! (Unknown)
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What a sweet answer! that you grant her all the happiness in the world, but does she know that too? does she also know that you are there if she chooses you? that would make the choice a little easier because if you choose your twinflame it becomes difficult if you have children and then you are not sure if the other person also chooses you. Then you might prefer to stay in a marriage that is not so good but is a stable situation for the children. If you choose your twinflame and he does not choose you then you have put your children in a situation where you yourself may become even more sad because you did it to them, without you getting the love of the person who is most important to you .. that’s why I think it’s important that you tell each other that .. then the choice will always remain with her.
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Thank you for your kind response .. I don’t know if she clearly knows that I would like to go for her. She does know that I love her intensely and how much I feel for her. I told her that honestly. But frankly, if she wants to go for me, I want to go 100% for her. Even though she has children. I met her children, who were immediately in love with me and I was immediately in love with them … But the situation is even more difficult than how I described him in my previous reaction .. We are both a woman .. I think that that also plays a major role for her .. It is such an intense love, and that also feeling for a woman while you used to just love men .. that is not nothing …. But of course I can’t look into her head either .. I find it difficult .. we have had no contact for two months .. meanwhile I have a new love .. no matter how difficult I find that .. and how much I love her .. I have to continue my life .. I sent her an email that I have a new love in my life .. I think she doesn’t like that at all, I could tell from the e-mail she sent back .. But what should I do then? After all, she has always denied her feelings to me .. she has always said she doesn’t feel the same .. Although everything showed that she felt it, I had to believe her when she said she didn’t feel anything … so yes .. But how is it with you then? Love (Unknown) I sent her an email that I have a new love in my life .. I think she doesn’t like that at all, I could tell from the email she sent back .. But what do I do then? After all, she has always denied her feelings to me .. she has always said she doesn’t feel the same .. Although everything showed that she felt it, I had to believe her when she said she didn’t feel anything … so yes .. But how is it with you then? Love (Unknown) I sent her an email that I have a new love in my life .. I think she doesn’t like that at all, I could tell from the email she sent back .. But what do I do then? After all, she has always denied her feelings to me .. she has always said she doesn’t feel the same .. Although everything showed that she felt it, I had to believe her when she said she didn’t feel anything … so yes .. But how is it with you then? Love (Unknown) But what about you then? Love (Unknown) But what about you then? Love (Unknown)
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It is so difficult to disassemble your family, but if people do not accept that you have a very big love in your life, that you sometimes miss very much, then at some point you will be pushed in that direction . How can you ask someone to see your soul love only as a friend? My twinflame and I have no contact at the moment, but we are used to that. Sometimes we do not see each other for months, we do not call each other or we do not email. I do not know how to proceed because if I am not sure that he will also go for me then I think the step is very big. You hurt so many people and I don’t dare to call him because I put too much pressure on him. It is a circle in which I keep turning. At the moment I am looking very closely at my own marriage to see if there is still enough love there to keep it going … How can you start to love another love again while you know that your soul love is the true one? Then you close a door .. that you better leave open ..? Isn’t it better to continue on your own until the other person comes? (Unknown)
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I think that above all you have to look very honest indeed at what your marriage still gives you .. and that you have to let go of your soul love for a moment .. You do not know if your soul love comes to you, even though you no longer have a relationship with another person .. The choice of whether to continue with your current relationship should be based primarily on what you still feel and want with your current partner, that choice should not be based on the fact that you think that your soul love might be easier towards you that way is coming .. Dare to look objectively at what your marriages bring you, without bringing your soul love into the picture … It would be a lot easier if you knew if your soul love would go all the way for you, and there you can only find out by simply asking .. yes, you need a lot of guts for that .. I know ..But maybe if you know the answer to that question, that it is a lot easier to make a choice, and that you may also get a lot more peace of mind .. (Unknown)
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… I fully understand why this question was asked, just ask yourself why you come across your twinflame when you are in a relationship, to wake you up to the fact that you are indeed on the wrong track and if you are not your twinflame can continue should you stay with your partner? even if that is no longer sufficient? It is no longer a crime to break off a relationship and move on, yes it is painful and very bad for the other, but it is more disrespectful to stay with someone you actually no longer want. I am not for adultery but for a free choice even though it hurts and there are certainly twinflames who stay together but because this site is full of stories about letting go and others I think the idea was born that you would never have a twinflame could have a relationship from behind the kitchen table. It should indeed be easier to touch each other’s finger tips and know, magic !! I do think that social pressure does indeed stop us from going further with each other, it is hard enough to get a hold of all the intense emotions let alone if both or 1 of the 2 already have a relationship and sometimes it is better if it is not okay to say here and not further because it does not seem to me that a twinflame is for going under . For the one who asked why, why not? (Unknown) it is hard enough to get a hold of all the intense emotions let alone if you have both or 1 of the 2 already in a relationship and sometimes it is better if it is not all about saying ok to here and not further because it seems to me not that a twinflame is for going under. For the one who asked why, why not? (Unknown) it is hard enough to get a hold of all the intense emotions let alone if you have both or 1 of the 2 already in a relationship and sometimes it is better if it is not all about saying ok to here and not further because it seems to me not that a twinflame is for going under. For the one who asked why, why not? (Unknown)
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I feel as if it is a bit of a fake that twinflames are .. Real love then you are together and you grow when you are together and not apart from each other because then you are also busy with the grief what is again extra comes on top. I don’t think that’s love. And if you cannot have a relationship with each other then it is meaningless because you live here and now and not in a different time. Twinflames belong together as day and night and are opposites to each other and that can be in a relationship or in a friendship male-female, female-female, male-male. And if you are crazy about each other, everything is allowed in love and war. So who’s kidding here? you are not going to say that you have to grow spiritually? you also have twinflames without spirituality and mean that you stay together forever until death in the earthly. You learn this way and so for the rest of your life, you do that with work and privately as well. Really do not understand that you are going to talk to someone that you must give it time and patience because it has never been proven that you will ever really get together. In addition, my twinflame has cheated on me so much that I no longer have faith in people and I hate him intensely, just as I love him intensely. But hatred and love belong together and are close together. no one can and cannot hold on to selflessness. Just look at those priests in the church with their sexual abuse. and my twinflame never has to come in again. I am also never open to other relationships because it had to be him. But if I can’t get it, it doesn’t mean that I’ll just go on with someone else and suddenly live intensely. everything comes as it comes and has nothing to do with self-steering and your life is already fixed when you are born. Is separate from your twinflame because it happens to come by and you know it right or you do not encounter it. Please stop venturing out that you can become happy without a twin, because that doesn’t last a person either. Doesn’t really make any sense and then goes on to say that you then get stuck in reproach. everything comes as it comes and has nothing to do with self-steering and your life is already fixed when you are born. Is separate from your twinflame because it happens to come by and you know it right or you do not encounter it. Please stop venturing out that you can become happy without a twin, because that doesn’t last a person either. Doesn’t really make any sense and then goes on to say that you then get stuck in reproach. everything comes as it comes and has nothing to do with self-steering and your life is already fixed when you are born. Is separate from your twinflame because it happens to come by and you know it right or you do not encounter it. Please stop venturing out that you can become happy without a twin, because that doesn’t last a person either. Doesn’t really make any sense and then goes on to say that you then get stuck in reproach.
PS I don’t recognize myself in my twin at all and I know for 1000% sure from the recognition signals that I read here on the site that it is him. But I don’t look like him or me at all and we have nothing in common. he lies and cheats, I am honest and open. But we could talk together like no other and the feeling of ‘not being complete’ without him is certainly true. You do not just have that with every relationship that you enter into. But that nonsense about having to learn from each other and recognizing yourself in each other is really wrong. I have read on other sites that it doesn’t have to be that way at all and you can be angry and hang around because you know that you have to do without a twin for the rest of your life unless you’re lucky. And that is for no man to bring cap to live ‘intensely’ in your uppie without sex. You won’t get old with that either. Has been proven and has nothing to do with spirituality. Look at the Maslow pyramid. And being selfless is when you give away your expensive new i phone to a poor person from Africa or something and give away your last euro. Mnesne want to be loved and to be held. Not being alone and living with a fantasy … (Unknown)