Q0244. This situation is driving me crazy. I can never let go of my twinflame. I will never be happy without him?

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I also met my twinflame 5 years ago. We immediately had a band that I had never felt before. Over the years we have started to love each other more and more. But a relationship never happened. Something seems to come up every time. I have been in a relationship for 3 years with another man who is very good to me. But he will never accept my relationship with my twinflame. Lately I have become increasingly aware that I will never be happy without my twinflame. We have close contact and know that we belong together. He is devastated that we cannot be together. I don’t know how to leave my current partner. \ He has nobody else and really clings to me. This situation is driving me crazy. I can never let go of my twinflame. I will never be happy without him.

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From my own experience I can say that you will be very happy if you can let go of your twinflame. Once you have learned that, you are no longer dependent on your twinflame for your happiness. You have become so strong that your happiness is no longer dependent on anything else than yourself. Happiness then becomes a choice that you can make again and again. I made it my motto because it is such a clear lesson to me; If you can let go of the best outside yourself then you will find the best in yourself! (Tiny)

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I recognize it …. I know it tears you apart, but you can use and strengthen that inner strength in a positive and negative sense … because then it can demolish you. And letting go does NOT mean that you lose each other, but that you give each other the space to come into balance with yourself. (Unknown)

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I have had a spiritual connection with my soul love for 6 years, and I can tell you, that pain and the loss will not pass until you are really “together”. These feelings are so intense that there is no more life without each other. (Unknown)

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Living in the sometimes so lonely spiritual world for many years I can speak with a certain experience. It’s great to meet your soulmate; Times of intense happiness are coming because you have found someone who totally understands you and speaks the language that comes from your heart. And if that turns out to be someone who, just like yourself, lives in the spiritual world, then nothing seems to be more interesting on earth than the moments you spend with her (him). You may not even realize that in the meantime you are neglecting your partner and hurting him (her) without really worrying about it. If, after all, a sexual relationship grows out of dealing with your soulmate, then the dolls really start dancing. In the long run you no longer really know who to choose for and gradually this double relationship becomes a hell that gives you nothing but headaches and stress. If your soulmate suddenly appears strange (because this is you! Immediately because you are a st! Uk of her (him)) and another appears in the game. Then you are just a shadow of what you have been. Your world seems to be collapsing and you have a lot of sorrow. Nobody can help you. Only the one loyal partner who has not let you down can alleviate the pain. Time heals all wounds and years later you will still lick these wounds because such an experience you can not just gum and soulmate remains soulmate. Take the loss with you in your grave. “” I DO NOT WANT YOU BACK. IT IS OVER. BUT WHAT I WOULD LIKE IS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO THINK OF ME.

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I was just looking at memories (The first real love) Seeing each other again after 40 years! And then so in love, as then, but lost sight of each other for stupid reasons. 40 years a loss, sadness, incomprehension. 40 years in pain lived with your heart, and with another mind founded another family. Why does the universe do this to us? (Unknown)

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Now…. years later I still miss you as much and sometimes even more. but I already knew that it would be missing. now…. years later I still love you and sometimes more. sometimes you look in my heart, you come in a dream. that happened more often … you are so beautiful so sweet and if I ever hurt you god I am so sorry. don’t think I want to hurt you. I will always think of you with all the love in my heart, with everything I have you are the most beautiful thing I had … you are the most beautiful thing I have. just let me give some love even though it is no longer at a distance … that’s all I want. you will love me so much with all my heart .. i love you! what do you do after your twinflame has disappeared from your life. Only recently I made my first contribution, I was so happy that I can finally give it a name. Experiencing soul love is an incredible thing, dragging you into the deepest valleys when you realize that you are not given to be together in this life, but can also give a kind of heavenly pleasure, as if your entire being is filled with love, not just for your twinflame, but for yourself and others. My relationship actually ended very quietly. That makes it difficult, because I still long for him, but we have made a choice in which there is no room for each other. I realize that at that particular moment we were attracted to each other and that we might never have met if we had made other choices earlier in our lives. Yet for a long time I have been busy discovering what and why I still feel such a deep love for this man. We actually belong together and now I can finally give it a name: soul love. I am happy that it is over between the two of us, but I am often sad and unhappy because I cannot be with him. Yet I comfort myself with the idea that we might be together in another life. I think I have been given a different purpose in this life and he cannot be a part of it at this stage of my life. Every hour I am confronted with how much I love him! (Unknown) I think I have been given a different purpose in this life and he cannot be a part of it at this stage of my life. Every hour I am confronted with how much I love him! (Unknown) I think I have been given a different purpose in this life and he cannot be a part of it at this stage of my life. Every hour I am confronted with how much I love him! (Unknown)

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Soul love or flight for themselves. I also have a (nasty) experience with this, have lived with my friend for more than 5.5 years, the guy I thought I was getting old with until he told me 3 months ago that I was in love with someone else, I didn’t notice him , still not until our last night together. He left two weeks ago and immediately moved in with the other. He still loves me, was not unhappy with me either but thinks he can become happier there… he cannot tell me what it is… but I think that bit of extra happiness is something he lacks in himself and what he lacks who thinks he can find … always has the feeling that he has had soulmates, can share everything … and that is mutual … even now that he is with that other person he gives to me and everything around us to be missed .. me and others with me have advised him to seek help first to be happy with himself again to share it with me or the other … but he does not feel and see it, while I have seen him change into a person he is not… is he now fleeing from himself to avoid his past and the associated negative memories? should I let him go and hope that he does not want the road to himself and to me, the partner with whom he thought he would grow old up to 2 months ago (his own words) and all this not? after his decision to choose the other, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Unknown) while I have seen him change into a person he is not … is he now fleeing himself to avoid his past and associated negative memories? should I let him go and hope that he does not want the road to himself and to me, the partner with whom he thought he would grow old up to 2 months ago (his own words) and all this not? after his decision to choose the other person, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Unknown) while I have seen him change into a person he is not … is he now fleeing himself to avoid his past and associated negative memories? should I let him go and hope that he does not want the road to himself and to me, the partner with whom he thought he would grow old up to 2 months ago (his own words) and all this not? after his decision to choose the other, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Unknown) the partner with whom he thought he would grow old until 2 months ago (his own words) and did not want all this? after his decision to choose the other, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Unknown) the partner with whom he thought he would grow old until 2 months ago (his own words) and did not want all this? after his decision to choose the other, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Unknown)

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Why would he go to look for happiness with the others? If you really had a bond of soul love? (Lisa)
Answer A sign that you only have this soul love with one person. One true in the whole world. He already indicates, I miss you, he is not to the other, because he no longer loves you. He lost his way. Let him go for a moment, come to your senses for a moment. He comes back automatically, and then he also discovers that this love cannot be obtained anywhere else. (Unknown)

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I often wonder if some people are on the right track here and have not adopted the twinflame idea. I notice that a whole lot of people may only think or hope that they have met their twinflames. But if that is the case, you should get clarity over time, changes will occur in your life (positive changes) … If that is missing and you are only going in a negative direction, you have to start seriously wondering if this is is your twinflame or is it not an empty soul that takes your energy? … It is so easy to say that that connection is so great, but if it really is, it will change itself and understand what “choices” you have to make. (Unknown)