Q0150. Should I try to prevent the pain that I read from you?

Wouter

I never believed in soul loved ones. Those were just nice talks from people in love. Suddenly; just like that, from one day to the next, I faced a woman who touched my heart. When it happens to you it is obvious that this person is your twinflame. It is an overwhelming event of which you can get confused. I have met my twinflame … and it is a great experience. And I want to be with her all the time, but the physical circumstances don’t allow that right now; too much would be disrupted and the confusion that she and I both feel would only increase. So we build it up quietly and see when and how, and especially try to enjoy the deep Love that suddenly IS there. I would like your experiences, should or can I continue with this,

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Do not prevent it. Experience the pain, feel the pain. Do not walk away from it, do not stop the pain and do not get lost in pain. By finding your way out of pain, you learn that you don’t need anyone to be yourself. Not your soul love either. Teach you that all love is already in yourself. Your soul love all reflects YOUR love. Thank your soul love for the pain because by finding your way out of that pain, you can learn to be yourself. (Tiny)

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You see that people around you go through exactly the same phases, including your soulmate. You see that people have the same dream and therefore go through the same process with their soulmate. You recognize the bumps and pitfalls with them because you have already gone through them yourself. And then it is not yet time to be together. With your mind and heart you are forever connected to your soulmate. Your soulmate will always come first. Whether or not you are together. Whether or not you are living with someone else or whether you are going to be with someone else or not. Another will always have to live with a second place. (Roel)

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What strikes me is that there is always a difference in age with soul lovers. 5-10 sometimes 15-20 years difference. We used to be taught to marry someone your age. In the second half of your life, you unexpectedly encounter your soulmate, your other half, who touches your heart so deeply, shows you what true love is. From that moment on, your whole life, your person, your thinking changes, but feel you too. You come to realize that you live with someone you don’t like at all. Hence all those divorces, in the past you did not know the depth of that love. A crush, but that is not for life. That passes. You don’t save a 50-year marriage with that. Soul love is for all your life. After you have found your soulmate again, you can never be happy with someone else again. (S)

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A quick response to S’s answer … It is not true that soul loved ones ALWAYS care about many years in age. My soulmate and I only care a year and a half! (Unknown)

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Also just respond to the answer of S … Soul Love is not just for this life but for lives. Once you have found your soulmate you can still be happy with someone else, even though that love is never that deep. Happiness and love is not dependent on another. (Tiny)

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This said s and you too often between 5 and? year difference … that is not true if I idd soulmate with whom I think I am? Then we only care about 2 years with each other a little shorter, and now said Soul Love is for your whole life. After you have found your soulmate again, you can never be happy with someone else. (S) no, I don’t agree … I have a family. love me a lot man. do not just leave him no wayyy even though I am sometimes angry with me kids love ceel v them. and even though I have my problems? I am very unfortunate and certainly not !! And I am happier to have a very good friend and yes, I am sure soulmate or heart friend. (Unknown)

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Your first lesson has already begun, learn to let go of control. You have no control over love. Whatever happens, you cannot stop it, so you cannot prevent it. You can run away from it, but it will eventually come your way. Enjoy the love that comes into your life. If you meet each other then that is true. You don’t just meet each other. Break through your ego to get deeper into your feeling. (Unknown)

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I have also met my soulmate. Our way is difficult. She is a woman who should have been a man. And I’m straight. (A woman) But we love each other so much. We feel, think exactly the same. When we think of each other, we just text each other or say the same thing at the same time. We feel each other’s pain. And I can go on and on. It feels so nice. I am indeed leaving my husband too. I wanted this for years. But now I have finally taken the step. I now choose for myself. My soulmate is married too. But not happy in her marriage either. We hope to be together someday. That is our joint dream. She is in my heart, my soul and touched me deeply. I did not know that love could be so beautiful and painful. (Unknown)