Q0149. Why is true love always an unreachable person?

Unknown

After all that I have read, I believe that we all mix things together every now and then, including me. The pure, pure Love that you feel for your soulmate and can flow freely with him / her and the more ‘daily’ love that we see all around us and in which we are programmed by the society in which we live. He says: love = being together, sharing daily life and bed, etc. There are two different people in it. I don’t have to be with him to experience the special bond with my soulmate. It does or does not matter. Of course he or she is always present, there is no other way, we are one. Fighting against it causes pain and frustration because it is a previously lost battle. I have experienced seeing your soulmate as an unreachable other person as a fallacy. That is an amputation that you perform yourself. He or she is intertwined with your system, the first and the last, always and everywhere, just like you, there is no distinction. True soul affinity means pure Love and that is unconditional. He / she does not demand anything from the other person, does not ask anything from you, does not impose any conditions. It is there, and that is difficult for us ordinary people because we are not used to dealing with it, there is not such a massive number of examples as that other ‘daily’ love for which you have to do anything and everything . Soul kinship is the only love relationship that does not have to be worked on and we are not used to that. True soul affinity means pure Love and that is unconditional. He / she does not demand anything from the other person, does not ask anything from you, does not impose any conditions. It is there, and that is difficult for us ordinary people because we are not used to dealing with it, there is not such a massive number of examples as that other ‘daily’ love for which you have to do anything and everything . Soul kinship is the only love relationship that does not have to be worked on and we are not used to that. True soul affinity means pure Love and that is unconditional. He / she does not demand anything from the other person, does not ask anything from you, does not impose any conditions. It is there, and that is difficult for us ordinary people because we are not used to dealing with it, there is not such a massive number of examples as that other ‘daily’ love for which you have to do anything and everything . Soul kinship is the only love relationship that does not have to be worked on and we are not used to that. there is not such a massive number of examples as that other ‘daily’ love for which you have to do anything and everything. Soul kinship is the only love relationship that does not have to be worked on and we are not used to that. there is not such a massive number of examples as that other ‘daily’ love for which you have to do anything and everything. Soul kinship is the only love relationship that does not have to be worked on and we are not used to that.

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Very clear! I recognize that mistake that you write about. I regularly fall into that trap. While I know that I have a lot more with my best friend than the one who lives with her. Between us it was / is already there and the current will not just disappear. Weird that I want to see that confirmed in specific circumstances and contacts. The desire is very calm. The intensity remains. And strange that these loves are so ‘invisible’ and unknown. (Unknown)

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Wonderful how you put that into words. My ‘ego’ has been struggling and learning for a year and a half, although things are gradually getting better. In the period that I went through a couple of penetrating encounters and then had to let go rigorously, messages kept coming through me for months: “marital energy” and “formless is the highest.” (Unknown)

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I think that this soul love is different for everyone. You have different kinds of soul loves. A twin spark is the highest. Love at first sight. We call it the twin ray. That is the same. It is the other half of your Self from your very first Divine origin (monadic). Then there are twinflames and below that Twin Souls mirror each other. These are at the Higher Self level, and learn from each other. And we also have twin mates. At the meeting of your twinflame it clicks much stronger than with the twinflame. There, sex, but also love, is much more intensive and important, so I think it’s different for everyone again. (Unknown)

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I sometimes don’t know how to handle that pain anymore. I feel like my other half making love to someone else, and that tears me apart. Who recognizes that? (S)

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Yes why actually .. I do not entirely agree, I have a soul love for sure, we certainly do not have it easy, my friend was in a long-term relationship in which he lived more like brother and sister than as partners. he broke this relationship .. and didn’t think that was easy far from it .. But why make another unhappy and stay in a relationship with someone you no longer love .. I totally miss the logic of that, you have three unhappy people .. you do the one you would stay with because of guilt or whatever it is really not fun with it you are there but you are not. I read here very often that people cannot leave their families. That is certainly not easy, but will you do it a favor if you stay? That is actually a question in an answer I am curious about your reactions. (Unknown)

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Late response: it is no longer just loving, but a very different kind of loving, and yes you hurt everyone if you stay in a relationship if it cannot give you what you actually need. at a certain point you can no longer do anything else (how good or bad your relationship was) to choose your other half .. I am right in the middle and now find that my partner was not as sweet and compassionate as I had always thought, see now it is sharp and I have often felt empty and lonely in my relationship and only then did I get another deja-vu of how he always dealt with me, no that’s not as you might expect, a twin opens your eyes, how good that you also thought your relationship was. you get true unconditional love from your twin and no one else. (Me)