Q0103. Am I the one who has to break this circle?

Ruth

I told my soul love that I want to share a life with him and since then it has been quiet on the other side. When I ask him what he has with his girlfriend, he says, they don’t really have much but he can go his own way. I feel his fear because that is mine too, so our lives run parallel and we both have to redeem our karma. It just becomes increasingly clear to me that I am also blocking my husband’s life. I maintain something that is not there and that breaks me up, the unfairness. But I’m afraid I’ll be alone. Not that I cannot be alone, because I can get along very well with myself but I want to “share” my life, I also think that my “love” and I can mean a lot to the “community”. My question in this, am I the one who must break this circle?

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this way I am looking for fellow sufferers, kindred spirits, who have also ended up in “each other’s” mistress or “lover’s” arms “by fate.” That secret forbidden love ??? Stand in second place and wait for him (she) to call. But also the desire, the tension, the love, passion and ecstasy. Falling in love forever … it’s never about … Those who recognize themselves in this, let something be heard. This way we can share our experiences, support each other .. Because we are so many. I want to break the taboo .. You are not the only one who can experience this. (Jannet)

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Jannet your soul love / soulmate will always be first and foremost in your heart. with your mind too, but often your mind says what your feeling does not want to know. (Marloes)

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Dear fellow sufferers, I am also in the same position, my twinflame is in a relationship and says to be content in this relationship but he still prefers to be in a relationship with me but still has a lot of fear to dare to do this. He has also recognized me as his twinflame but does not dare to take the step to share a life with me. On the one hand, I am very happy that he recognizes me and I enjoy our contact to the full, but I find it annoying that everything has to be so secretly, I do not know that I have to be patient, but sometimes you are distraught, we are already 3 years in this circle, always pulling and pushing, but we only know for a few months that we are twinflames, so yes that is at least a progress, we can now finally explain all our feelings and telepathic contact, I continue to pray and hope that someday we can really be together and that we can live happily without secrets. (Unknown)

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He chooses feelings, have you ever thought about that, you have no influence on whether or not you are hard at him. (Unknown)

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I have the feeling that attracting and repelling will continue as long as you do not follow your feelings. I feel that I cause so much to my twin that I would rather avoid him, but I also feel that my twin does not approach me because he has a relationship. we love each other but cannot be together. I sometimes don’t understand it anymore … will the feeling ever win? and yes, who breaks the circle .. actually the spiritual circle is closed … you have found each other. (Unknown)