For Patries of question 62 and everyone who has experienced it. Is your soul love back in your life or are you still (like me already 11 months) separated from him? If he / she came back, how did it go? Do you first have to “lose” him / her completely in your feeling and then does he return? Or can you keep waiting, because you feel that he is coming again. But you also know when you have expectations, that he feels bound / obligated, what he does not want. Your soul love said to someone of you, “I don’t love you (anymore).” While you FEELED it was / is true? What is that: is my feeling then right, or are his words? Who can tell me something about that?
Your feeling is right, “he loves you” but he thinks when I say this, it might hurt you less than you keep waiting for him (because what hurts more than an empty silence), while he obligations at home or maybe you are at home, he doesn’t want to hurt you. And he does not want to destroy you in spite of his longing for you, which will always remain. (Ronald)
Ronald, thank you very much for your answer! It is actually exactly as I think / feel it is. But I also feel / know ‘almost’ for sure that he will not last without me / without each other, and that we will come together again…. Can you tell me something about whether my feeling is right in this? [PSAs you perhaps the Ronald van Sp.im.? Then I will call you about this] (Me)
Listen to your feelings, that always tells the truth, in the end you get back together. Souls of love do not lose sight of each other. protect each other, don’t forget that this is a love for life. I’m not Ronald from SP.im. but someone who has experience with this. (Ronald)
Thank you for your response, Ronald. I am glad that other people “know” / say that it will all be alright again. That gives strength to continue and also to let go a little, because I am / was doing this about 24 hours a day. At this moment I (finally!) Have the feeling: let it go for a while, it will be fine again, instead of: “I’ll just wait and wait until he finally comes again.” (Me)
It sounds like you are in your head a lot and not in your heart! You think a lot, ask a lot and you even hear something of “control” in your words. When you are in your heart / feeling you do not think about these things but you can let yourself be filled with love …. and not only for your soulmate !!! (Unknown)