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I feel so bad that I don’t know what to do anymore. Could cry all day. My whole life seems to be a play in which I play a role that is starting to move further and further away from me. I am so completely stuck in all kinds of structures that I feel like a spider in a web. I can’t put all the details here, but I have a twinflame from an intimate circle and that makes it almost certain that we can never come together unless everyone we know has died. I am 100% sure that he is my twinflame. Why on earth do we have to meet each other in this life? What is the purpose of this? I even start to look forward to vacations because I can’t be around him for weeks, I don’t tolerate anyone around me, and I keep thinking about him. I really suffer from this love, which also brings me so much beauty. I have the feeling that I am constantly wearing a mask and may never be completely myself. Which is also true, because if I were, then I was with him and I could make my dreams come true. I no longer see a solution, I don’t like being able to go on for another 40 years, I just can’t do that. I want to fully live, love and enjoy. But that is not possible, because the price is high, too high. Do you have any advice for me? because the price is high, too high. Do you have any advice for me? because the price is high, too high. Do you have any advice for me?
Answer 1
Dear, I recognize your feeling and problem flawlessly, I am also in it at the moment and indeed there is only one person you can tolerate around you and that is him / her. along to it. incidentally, it is already there. this helps me a little bit, and hope that it can work for you too. (Unknown)
Answer 2
If you are so stuck then you have to take a good look at why and if you want to continue like this I hear so much sadness and I recognize that, try to go your own way step by step, do not let others decide what to do but let yourself be guided by you feeling. That is really the only signpost for you to get out of this misery and what now appears to be insurmountable will be gradually overcome. and what it turns out is that it wasn’t that hard at all. and with every claim you make to end the play, because that’s it, it’s getting a little lighter. If you are happy, it is a sign that you are on the right track… I have also taken steps to change my life and that requires courage and a new perspective on fixed patterns, because you know those patterns are not fixed only we , or maybe even more … our environment does not want them to see it differently because that is safe. You say the price is high, but your sorrow is a far too high price! (you may / must enjoy God / universe) I of course do not know all the ins and outs .. but you get there step by step … really! I wish you a lot of strength. Love (Unknown)
Answer 3
I can only cry with you (Unknown)
Answer 4
Move or view it from YOUR perspective. Twinflames are a unity. (Wieweet)
Answer 5
Is your life really that bad now? Are you in a relationship and maybe you should go on alone? Or change something in your life that makes it bearable? Keep thinking and try to stay calm. Try to be happy with the conversations you can have. Be happy that he is still there and enjoy the moments together and make each other happy. You don’t have to do anything physical. Enjoy or Sorrow. It is a choice. Read inspiring texts that are useful to you. (Unknown)
Answer 6
If you are so stuck then you have to take a good look at why and if you want to continue like this I hear so much sadness and I recognize that, try to go your own way step by step, do not let others decide what to do but let yourself be guided by you feeling. That is really the only signpost for you to get out of this misery and what now appears to be insurmountable will be gradually overcome. and what it turns out is that it wasn’t that hard at all. and with every claim you make to end the play, because that’s it, it’s getting a little lighter. If you are happy, it is a sign that you are on the right track… I have also taken steps to change my life and that requires courage and a new perspective on fixed patterns, because you know those patterns are not fixed only we , or maybe even more … our environment does not want them to see it differently because that is safe. You say the price is high, but your sorrow is a far too high price! (you may / must enjoy God / universe) I of course do not know all the ins and outs .. but you get there step by step … really! I wish you a lot of strength. Love (Unknown)
Answer 7
Which price is higher than registering yourself? Beating yourself away, becoming a robot, not being who you are and giving up the best thing that ever happened to you? Which price can be higher than that? If we don’t live, we are dead, zombies, plants. Everything is possible in this life. Nothing is ‘impossible to do’. Follow your heart, it knows exactly what you need. You met this person because you are ready! Because this is your destiny. Do not doubt whether you can do it. If this happened to you, you can! You already know that you can bite through that apple, that power is in you because you have already received this love in your life. You called it because you are ready. Trust me, nothing is worse than losing yourself. Nobody can ever help if you turn into someone like that. Everything can be solved. It seems so bad and scary, but it doesn’t have to be. Fight for your love and for who you are. Otherwise you always look back. This feeling never diminishes. And this is the most beautiful, most beautiful that exists! And we should cherish this. (Unknown)
Answer 8
Living without your heart is also a role. What would you like to live like that and who can use it. That is the highest price ever. Choose your heart and soul. Only then will you find peace. (Unknown)
Answer 9
Answer 8, I live according to my heart and soul, it shows me the way…. answer 7, so you can read exactly how to do it…. how do you live in practice according to your heart and soul? Reply 4 hmmm worth considering although I am starting to feel like Siamese twins too, so fear that it will not do much (Unknown)
Answer 10
You are sad because you are not with your twin! while your twin also makes you happy, your emotions say enough, they indicate that things have to change, they come straight from your soul. Fighting yourself / heart / soul is ultimately impossible. (Unknown)
Answer 11
Uhm … are you angry? I assume you are talking to yourself? My emotions have nothing to do with grief because of being unable to be together, I am not super emotional at the moment and I can handle it all, just find it difficult why it all has to be so difficult…. I would be very sad to be thrown off the helm and hurting everyone and doing wrong, that would be completely contrary to my soul. I CAN wait because I have faith and no THAT does not make me sad, I am quite happy in my way, does not alter the fact that I would really like normal (human) contact but I can also let that go. (Unknown)
Answer 12
Wow, how many responses already, very nice, thanks! I will just tell you an important detail that may make it clear why everything is so complicated. My twinflame is my brother-in-law. Precisely that makes everything so terribly difficult. He has to deal with a loyalty conflict because of his brother (my partner), and the rest of the whole family, and I with my family, who will erupt like a volcano over us if it ever comes true. Well come true, there IS nothing except the strong feelings for each other that we have never mentioned before but you both know they are there. What you say is correct; that this has come our way for good reason, that you are on the right track if you feel happy. Yes that is true. And I feel incredibly good when he is with me and I AM enormously grateful that he is in my life and that we see each other every now and then. Sure. But do you also understand that this is a difficult situation? I know it all myself and I think! it is not at all so “wrong” because I know that this is a completely different kind of love than earthly love. It just exists for me side by side, I love both. But explain that to people in your area. Nobody understands it and you get a share in front of you. So I’m looking forward to it. I hope that someday we will come together, but I don’t see how that can ever happen except in the deepest secrecy. And then, do we want it that way? And can we do that? (I) it is not at all so “wrong” because I know that this is a completely different kind of love than earthly love. It just exists for me side by side, I love both. But explain that to people in your area. Nobody understands it and you get a share in front of you. So I’m looking forward to it. I hope that someday we will come together, but I don’t see how that can ever happen except in the deepest secrecy. And then, do we want it that way? And can we do that? (I) it is not at all so “wrong” because I know that this is a completely different kind of love than earthly love. It just exists for me side by side, I love both. But explain that to people in your area. Nobody understands it and you get a share in front of you. So I’m looking forward to it. I hope that someday we will come together, but I don’t see how that can ever happen except in the deepest secrecy. And then, do we want it that way? And can we do that? (I) but I don’t see how that can ever happen except in the deepest secrets. And then, do we want it that way? And can we do that? (I) but I don’t see how that can ever happen except in the deepest secrets. And then, do we want it that way? And can we do that? (I)
Answer 13
Dear questioner, perhaps you are going to break a taboo, have you ever thought of that? That that is the reason for your meeting? Sometimes there are also such patterns in 1 family throughout history, so multiple soul loved ones and affairs in family history? (Who knows)
Answer 14
I am again (I), the questioner. Now that you are talking about family patterns, that is interesting. Not that I know of several soul loved ones in the family, but my husband’s mother became a widow years ago at a fairly young age and then started a relationship that was also quite controversial, but not with a family member. So something different than when my brother-in-law and I would come together. I have been searching on the internet for similar stories about brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, but then you only encounter heavily condemning criticism and people are mercilessly killed. Here on this site are happy people who understand the concept of soul love and give normal reactions. I really understand that this is very sensitive and that for most people it is something that you simply “don’t do”. But I didn’t ask for it either neither does he. It was there and there, and that’s that. What we do with it makes the difference. And I will never just start anything stupid with him. But fair is fair; if I felt that the moment was there, and I am sure that we fully understand each other in this area, and he seeks a rapprochement, then I go for the ax. Because I really want it somewhere. But it is not nearly there yet. The strange thing in our case is that people around us seem to feel it. His mother looks at us with suspicion and sometimes deliberately keeps us apart. My parents love my brother-in-law and my children too. My twinflame in turn takes a distance from me when there is family in the area, I only found out and now it doesn’t hurt me that way anymore, now that I know the reason. But it remains difficult, because you see each other in every family affair (and there are many), and you know a lot about each other’s lives. He is single and has no children. (I)
Answer 15
If you really want to continue this and want to be with him, you should first let go of the one, wait a while and then continue with the other. It is a difficult situation, but everything is possible. Keep it a secret for everyone, because you don’t want to harm the family in such a way that the brothers no longer have contact. It is better to first leave the other person, and then start again after a while. (Unknown)
Answer 16
Dear questioner … I do not know when all these messages were written but I end up on this site also because I am looking for an answer. I am in exactly the same situation as you and I no longer know how to deal with it. My brother-in-law (also my husband’s brother) is also my soulmate. And my husband and he are also twin brothers. If I also come closer when family is there, he repels me and acts as if I don’t matter. But in the meantime there are glances back and forth. I am very curious how that is with you right now and would like to get in touch with you in a different way. Maybe that is an option? I hope you respond back. Thanks in advance… Gr, a sister-in-law…. (Unknown)
Answer 17
To answer 16, Dear “colleague-in-law”, I am only now reading your response and hope that you will also read here. How nice to “speak” to someone who experiences the same thing. Hard is not it? I have been in this situation for years and I must say that I have grown enormously in the process, especially in the last year. I can now say that I have let go of him 100% and love him unconditionally. I grant him with all my heart to live his life the way he wants. And when we see each other, I feel the love between us. It is in his eyes (and mine), in his touches, in everything. Unlike a few years ago, I now know for sure that this man is my twinflame. And also that we are going to come together in this life. But it will take a while before the time comes. The difficult thing remains that he is family and that people would fall over us even harder than if he were just a man. He himself also feels that battle; love for his brother but also for me. And me too, exactly the same. He now has a girlfriend and she, too, unconsciously registers a few things. I just let it all go. After all, we are not doing anything wrong, there is nothing at first sight. But woe to those who are more sensitive and can pick things up; they know it. Everything is on its time, that’s for sure. (Unknown) After all, we are not doing anything wrong, there is nothing at first sight. But woe to those who are more sensitive and can pick things up; they know it. Everything is on its time, that’s for sure. (Unknown) After all, we are not doing anything wrong, there is nothing at first sight. But woe to those who are more sensitive and can pick things up; they know it. Everything is on its time, that’s for sure. (Unknown)