Stay with yourself! Love yourself! Choose for yourself! That first and foremost. You cannot really enter into a relationship with your soul love if you cannot be there entirely for yourself. Impossible, then tug-and-shrug is so intense, and it often comes at the expense of your own process, and you don’t help the other person with it either. Heal yourself … and then … heal each other. Honest, sincere, open as a child, wise as an elder of days, spontaneous as the youth. wild as a storm. Love each other. Dare to love each other. Dare to be vulnerable, to open your heart. At all times.