If he doesn’t feel the same for you, let him go. Because trying to win his love for you makes no sense. If a moment ever comes in this life or another life that he realizes that you are the only true love in his life, then it will be all right. Even if you are 80 or 100 years old! I hope and know for sure that there will come a time in our lives (perhaps only when we are old) when we realize that we are meant for each other. I cherish him as a friend and I will never let that go!