I have been in a relationship for 10 years. All went well, were happy. A year ago we were at a party and I met a friend of a friend. I always talk to many people and everyone. Was talking to this boy (5 min). I trusted him immediately. Felt good. He has been in my head ever since. Half a year later I met him again. Again some talking, meanwhile fishing a bit who and what he was. But actually I already knew. I belong to him. 2 months later we met again. We talked all night. I can’t look at him, that touches me so deeply. We got more and more contact. That was very difficult because I was still in a relationship. Within 2 days we were flirting to why we missed each other and had given me children instead of your husband. In the end we couldn’t stay away from each other. I wasn’t going to end my relationship at the time, so we agreed it would only be sex. When I came to him,! the first time, I immediately felt at home. (while I am always suspicious). I felt at ease, blissful. The sex was fantastic. The only thing that was so strange, I still couldn’t look at him. We lost ourselves in each other. I know he felt this too, I know that, I feel that. Every time I left I was overwhelmed by pain, really physical pain. He always became distant after our meetings. He has repeatedly asked me what I wanted. He eventually threw me out of his life. He had a girlfriend (2 days !!) after our last meeting. I’m still broken. He has stated on several occasions that he cannot give in to his feelings for me. He wanted a stable relationship. The strange thing is that, despite the pain, I grant him everything and I don’t blame anything. I am convinced that he belongs to me. My question, could he be my twinflame? And if so, does he also feel the pain of not being with me?
Wow, very difficult. In fact, an outsider can never answer that question. I am firmly convinced that someone inside knows if it is. But in any case the meeting sounds like it was a soulmate in any case. I personally believe that twinflames do not easily cheat if one or both of them have a relationship. Not to be moralistic, but usually the physical aspect is in second place. But there are always exceptions. So twinflame or soulmate … well. Look deep inside yourself – and there are also things that happen when it comes to twinflame love: a growth spurt in spiritual development – you go in search of depth and meaning. You experience many synchronicities concerning yourself and your love. And you experience severe divorce pains. Just a few examples. Hope that everything will be as it should be. Get well soon.