Q1274 How should I proceed?

Unknown

Dear people, First of all I want to thank you all. I thought I was crazy, thanks to your experiences and stories I get recognition. As a child I was already brought together with my twinflame. We talked for hours and literally stuck to each other. my soul had to be torn apart, nobody understood why I could be so sad. After a few years in the middle of puberty I went back to my place of birth. Not a few hours later he was there again, my twinflame. He literally said that he was my presence felt. We had both grown considerably and were physically attracted to each other. The weird thing is that I already knew that I would have to give him up again. It was tearing apart, I longed for him and in the end we were together for three years. He was my buddy, my brother, my love, he was a part of me. Until the day we got divorced again. The day I knew it was coming. Heartbreaking, I was lost, amputated, numb … Everything ended so abruptly. I married, he married, I children , he children. After 15 years I receive an email from him, his wife has left him. All my happy life turned upside down. What do I have to do now, my heart and soul want to be with him, my mind with my husband and children! A difficult period of a back and forth. and he avoids all contact. I try to forget him but my soul cannot. How should I continue? How do you learn to live with it? numb … Everything ended so abruptly. I married, he married, I children, he children. After 15 years I receive an email from him, his wife has left him. All my happy life turned upside down. What do I have to do now, my heart and soul want to be with him, my mind with my husband and children! A difficult period of a back and forth. and he avoids all contact. I try to forget him but my soul cannot. How should I continue? How do you learn to live with it? numb … Everything ended so abruptly. I married, he married, I children, he children. After 15 years I receive an email from him, his wife has left him. All my happy life turned upside down. What do I have to do now, my heart and soul want to be with him, my mind with my husband and children! A difficult period of a back and forth. and he avoids all contact. I try to forget him but my soul cannot. How should I continue? How do you learn to live with it?

Answer 1
That I have exactly the same my heart and soul also lies with her and loves her. I know what you are going through it is sometimes really unbearable that feeling. The soul begs for her soul so I experience it occasionally. My soul knows her soul and knows that her soul needs time. To relax and to grow. I should accept this situation, it is her choice and her life of reason. I think you should fully support it the soul may want that, but if the mind does not want that. I want a relationship with my soul love but I know that she is now also very happy in her relationship. And I want as little as possible in between that will not be good for her and me. The time she says is always welcome. If it is not in earthly life than in heaven. (Unknown)

Answer 2
You made the choice not to leave your family for him, you must have had your reasons for that, but of course there are consequences. That he now also continues his life is one of them. That may be difficult for you, but your own choice. Maybe you should start to wonder how happy you would have been if you had continued with him. You probably would not have been happy now. Accept and continue your life. It may take some time, but you could have lived happily without your twin before. Then it will be fine with you now. I wish you strength! (I)