Unknown
Hello, Maybe some of you can help me. I have now let go of my twinflame for 2 years and have moved on with someone else and have also moved to the other side of the country. He still tries to get in touch with me from time to time and I still meet him in my dreams and the connection is still there occasionally with short silences. My twinflame still lives in my birth place. Just like some friends and family members. Now that when I visit family or friends I feel terribly nervous and this starts on the evening before the day I leave. On the morning I get into my car, I get sweaty hands, breathing problems, stiff muscles, nausea and terrible nerves, and it only gets worse as I approach my old home. Soothing music playing in the car and breathing exercises help nothing. And feel a terrible fear of what if I come across him now. When I drive home at the end of the day I am completely broken everything hurts and I am really tired. And I just feel a huge relief when I am far away from my old hometown. I really want to go and relax with my family and friends, but it is torture every time. So who oh who has tips. Thanks in advance! I really want to go and relax with my family and friends, but it is torture every time. So who oh who has tips. Thanks in advance! I really want to go and relax with my family and friends, but it is torture every time. So who oh who has tips. Thanks in advance!
Answer 1
you did not let him go. you hold that person very tightly, otherwise you would have no fear. Also ask yourself why are you afraid? (Unknown)
Answer 2
Break the pattern because that is if you want to get rid of it you should be in your environment with your twinflame. You just have one that you have built for yourself. You are afraid of the unknown and if you overcome that it all becomes normal and you become a lot calmer. Do it step by step first undertake normal things that you actually do not dare to do everyday things. power to look at or even approach your twinflame to speak or greet greetings kindly. We are here to learn don’t forget that. (Unknown)
Answer 3
I would let go of everything, including family and friends in your old hometown. It is conditioning and you no longer need it. That is also the beauty of a twinflame encounter, letting go of everything that was dear to you. And completely reborn as being new. (Unknown)
Answer 4
If I read your story like this, I don’t think you could have let it go completely. Because your story shows how much you still think about him and how you deal with him when you go back to your birthplace. That in itself is not surprising at all, because releasing your twinflame 100% can be a long-term process. I want to advise you to allow yourself that time. For example, invite your friends and family to you. That way you can stay away from your twinflame. Finally: a soul relationship aims to teach yourself to be and is about love for yourself. You can grow, so take your time and space. And dare to face the difficult moments. Therein lies the power to get through it. Good luck! (Flower)
Answer 5
2bloem, you say letting go of your twinflame, okay, but it is not always that easy, because you always stay connected somewhere with her, or her, and certainly I think, if you know each other in an earthly contact. I have eg now no earthly contact, (but who knows maybe it will still come), but I still can’t manage to let go TOTAL, because she is somewhere in my system, and so as they sometimes say, we have a sort of telephatic connection , so if she thinks of me, or I think of her, she does that too, or vice versa, how can you totally release someone 100%? Although I would like that sometimes, but after about 4 years I haven’t really succeeded, I must say, and sometimes I don’t want to let that go, and sometimes I do. I think you can REALLY never let go of a twinflame, from the first conection, or contact. That is why it is also a twinflame, I think people can live with it afterwards, but let go completely? doubt het.grtjs (Unknown)
Answer 6
To the writer of answer 5: No, releasing completely is indeed impossible. You are part of each other on a soul level, because you are one and the same soul, incarnated in two bodies. So the soul connection and the joint assignment that you have remains. However, you are supposed to let go of the earthly aspect, or your desire to be together in earthly life. I am very aware of the soul connection between me and my twinflame, but we no longer have earthly contact. He is now repelling me, but I now see that it serves a greater purpose. We both still have to work on finding wholeness in ourselves. A process that each of us must go through alone. Being together often disrupts the transformation process. Certainly in our case! So no, you will never be completely detached from a soul connection again, but in an earthly sense it is certainly possible and necessary to let go of the other. Contrary to what is often thought, soul love has little to do with romance as we see it in films. Ultimately it’s about YOU and your spiritual healing. It is about unconditional learning to love. Your twinflame must follow the same path. Being together is only successful if both have found wholeness in themselves and are no longer dependent on each other’s presence for finding love and happiness. Because loving each other, without wanting to ‘own’ each other and not wanting to influence each other anymore, that is unconditional love. (Flower) Ultimately it’s about YOU and your spiritual healing. It is about unconditional learning to love. Your twinflame must follow the same path. Being together is only successful if both have found wholeness in themselves and are no longer dependent on each other’s presence for finding love and happiness. Because loving each other, without wanting to ‘own’ each other and not wanting to influence each other anymore, that is unconditional love. (Flower) Ultimately it’s about YOU and your spiritual healing. It is about unconditional learning to love. Your twinflame must follow the same path. Being together is only successful if both have found wholeness in themselves and are no longer dependent on each other’s presence for finding love and happiness. Because loving each other, without wanting to ‘own’ each other and not wanting to influence each other anymore, that is unconditional love. (Flower)
Answer 7
@ answer 5, by letting go is not meant from your system but letting go in love, the only thing you wish for your twinflame is that the person is at rest and can find himself happy in himself. Oww how do I know that I have taken 4 years myself to really get started with it. To let go of my twin from that position. that is why my twin was out of my system No. Telepathy offered the answer … my twin is always the same as my twin. Sometimes days of nothing, sometimes days in all their intensity. But I have never known fear in it. I was just looking for the places where we have been together. To renew it in my heart. Every time a step to be in love. (Unknown)
Answer 8
but I think that they decide from above, and no other person can intervene, because my twinflame has been lost through the intervention of others, but then really through other people with an evil intention between us, I really had the feeling that they had my future on trying to change, and it was, but luckily that is changing completely in the right direction. People are sometimes cruel. And I am not at all a vengeful person, and I am even hypersensitive, and they are highly sensitive, they call it that, but twinflames tear apart, you don’t, with no couple even. Thanks, and good luck everyone by the way. (Unknown) I really had the feeling that they were trying to change my future, and so it was, but luckily that is changing completely in the right direction. People are sometimes cruel. And I am not a revengeful person at all, and am even hypersensitive, and they call it highly sensitive, but twinflames do not tear apart, you do not, with no couple even.Thank you, and good luck everyone. (Unknown) I really had the feeling that they were trying to change my future, and so it was, but luckily that is changing completely in the right direction. People are sometimes cruel. And I am not a revengeful person at all, and am even hypersensitive, and they call it highly sensitive, but twinflames do not tear apart, you do not, with no couple even.Thank you, and good luck everyone. (Unknown)
Reply 9
@antw 8 send the people who somehow influence seeing one another in love energy. They don’t know anything else but how they act the way they do. It’s not even culpable. It is about how the other person deals with it? in this how do you handle it? do you limit this by going with this energy or do you actually take the energy that is light and love? these are all learning processes regarding Twins. (Unknown)