I just read a poem full of anger that was how it was written. It is not fair to your soul love, because he did not ask for it either. You both have to go through the process. And that just involves pain, and if you don’t accept that then you shouldn’t take that off on your twinflame, I think. First take a look inside yourself and solve your own problem. He complements you where necessary. It will be fine. I also went through it with my soul love and now we only experience love for each other.