I am now in a difficult choice .. choosing for your soul love or your current partner … I have been thinking for months also because the children are involved, it is very difficult. The love for my current partner has already faded and sometimes with serious conflicts I still do not dare to take a step. Has anyone experienced something like that? and how do you solve this?
Very difficult and heartbreaking indeed, only your soul love, you do not choose your twinflame, a twinflame happens to you. With this you have to do it and live with it. This ultimate mirror will continue to challenge you all your life, and continue to do so until you are in reasonable harmony. Above all, you are meant to really love yourself like no other, because your twinflame is yourself, your other half. If you love yourself very much, which is a difficult and painful way of achieving this, then you need other people less, including the twinflame. By this I mean that you just let go of dependence. To achieve this is really top sport, so to speak. You will just see your marital conflicts that they just belong and because of the love you feel for your twinflame, that positive energy also continues in your marriage. I hope it has become clear to you and especially how does it feel to you what I wrote, that twinflame relationship is really not romantic. It is hard struggling! , a lot of suffering, both psychologically and physically and also a lot of joy in between and if you really love yourself like no other then you are a reborn person and after all those years you still love your current partner and your children. Your twinflame will also do its utmost to maintain your marriage. both psychologically and physically and also a lot of joy in between and if you really love yourself like no other then you are a reborn person and after all those years you still love your current partner and your children. Your twinflame will also do its utmost to maintain your marriage. both psychologically and physically and also a lot of joy in between and if you really love yourself like no other then you are a reborn person and after all those years you still love your current partner and your children. Your twinflame will also do its utmost to maintain your marriage.
Yes, very recognizable. I chose my family, but was that smart ??? I’m an eternal doubter, so … But think about my soulmate every day.
That is very difficult because it also involves children who are attached to their father. I think the children are ahead, but I understand your situation very well. You can also take that soul love as a friend to make it feel more bearable for yourself. But I will also say go by your feelings and then you know what is best for you. Living a life in pain and having continuous conflicts will not make you happy and it is not worth it either. It is also not good for the children because they copy the behavior of the parents.
It will naturally also be good for the children if you and your soul love come together in love. Your children would rather see 2 people who love each other than 2 people who keep arguing how you are now in the situation. It is also better for you to choose soul love for you.
I recognize your dilemma, I am also bound and have a twinflame. But I love two men very much and therefore cannot choose. I also don’t want my children to get divorced. If my marriage was very bad and all my husband’s feelings gone, I would consider it, but not in the current situation. I don’t want to build my happiness on the grief of others. Of course there are times when I would prefer to be anything with my twinflame, but I have accepted that it will not happen and I trust that if it ever has to be, it will be.
Very nice to know that you are also in this situation and to choose their own way. I am currently trying to save my family by giving my current partner a chance, this would take time and would not be fair to my twinflame. If my twinflame does not have that patience, I will let him go. I doubt very much and do not know if this is the right solution. I now see my twinflame suffering and I feel that very strongly even though we have nothing to do with each other and we keep distance from each other and he respects me very much. He is really too sweet for me. My feeling tends more towards my twinflame but my mind says no. It’s so hard …
@ response 6 ; yes, i understand what you mean. I also see my twinflame suffer from the relationship I have with my partner. I see his pain, the distance that he takes and that I also take myself. It is all very difficult. I hope that in the new year we can play open cards against each other.
response 7. We are in the same situation … I also hope that in the new year we will be more open to each other and that we will come to a good solution together. Have indicated that we would like to talk to New Year’s Eve and we would New Year’s talk completely. My intentions … good luck in love … and I wish you and everyone who has found their soul love good luck in 2013.
@ 8, yes then we are indeed in the same situation. Only, you will talk it out with your twinflame. I’m not so sure about that. We can never talk about it because we never get a chance, or it must be that one of us goes to the other or the other calls or something, then it could be. But that almost never happens. We both know that it is very sensitive between us (my twinflame is someone in my in-laws). So there is nothing else to do but wait for it all. Sometimes I think that this is all too difficult and complicated for this life. Next round of (life) new opportunities? Pffff.
I am now waiting for my twinflame to come and talk to me. Also as exciting as what you have … precisely because my twinflames are also so sensitive. My twinflame can read my feelings very well .. almost impossible to hide when we have eye contact and can understand how I feel without using words. Very spiritual. My twinflame is my colleague .. very difficult to contain your emotion at work and we really don’t know much about each other but spiritually it feels like we have known each other for a long time.
Yes, twinflames can read and write together. I have that with mine too. He doesn’t have to say anything, I know everything about him. That is bizarre. I often dream about him and then I can touch him and he me.