Is the encounter with your soul love only meant to wake you up and sell a hefty, very painful kick under your ass, and then have the roads split again? What is the reason?
To learn from each other and to love each other. You are not each other’s half for nothing.
Yes, if we only knew! But I’m still going for the kick.
The reason is slightly different for everyone. Similarly the outcome …
For me it is now a few years ago that I met my twinflame. You have been able to read enough stories about how that works on this site. But I think it is indeed shaking up. No matter how painful it is and how easily said by me now. Try to let it go and live your own life. The faster you pick up the thread for yourself, the easier it is. The more you try to keep in touch with your twinflame, the more pain you will endure. I also see it that you have probably lost yourself and have been brought back on your path with a hard hand. All the best. I feel for you.
Why? I suspect that it is to open the love that you have within. So to experience your own feelings of love. To enjoy and then do your own thing again. In fact, lead an adult independent life. That’s why it’s so hard, I guess.
@ answer 5: Yes, love awakens, but how can you enjoy it, if attracting and repelling hurts so much? Will there ever be a prospect of ‘true love’ without all these obstacles?
My opinion: That has to do with the fusion process. Your parts come together slowly and that hurts. But once you get through it becomes less.
@ antw6 Growing up happens by trial and error (attracting, shedding). It is simply the case that people need a soul love because this is the only way to grow because there are so many questions. You grow by asking questions. Yes, there will certainly be a time of calm, real love, after the childish migration. A soul’s sweetheart is not meant to stay with it, it is meant to grow to your own self. That’s how I experience it.
Why do you keep coming back together? I think God thinks they don’t understand that they should be together. I have brought them together so many times but they have a record for the head. Of course you have to grow but if you are looking for the only true one then you really have to be with your twinflame to grow.
Then you will have to live with that because it is no different. Forcing makes no sense because then it only gets harder.
@antw 9 As long as something is needed, people come together. So I think it is need / dependence that makes you come together again and again.
Answer 1: To learn from each other? How can you learn from each other if you don’t see each other! I think all the more to become more aware of yourself.