Hello, my twinflame had an accident a few weeks ago. Fortunately, it will come back on top. The pain you describe is indescribable. So my question is whether this interval or whatever you want to call it is the time for both to work on yourself? I haven’t heard from him for 2 weeks. But it’s just like he’s talking to me in thought. I myself get angry sometimes and then say aloud to him: “you know where to find me”. I try to get rid of it but the pain is very intense, what should I do with this? I believe that if someone really loves you, they should come to you naturally. Could it be that I have grown more physically than the other person?
There is undoubtedly mental contact between you if you experience it that way. But he doesn’t have to experience that as consciously as you do. So he might feel your anger in some way (eg feel bad) and not know why it is. Do you want that? Coming to you: Does he know that you love him? He can love you very well and still not be able to see you. I speak from experience. Dealing with the pain that you feel from your twinflame … you don’t have to bear the pain of another. Find out for yourself how much you can / want to have. What is going crazy, you try to close yourself off with protection techniques. That will not help, but it can make the case less intense, primarily because your own attitude will change. Usually twinflames are not quite at the same level of development.
Dear questioner, I am in the same boat and may be able to help you on your way. As Arundash says I also experience it and it certainly helps to teach yourself some techniques to protect / protect yourself even though this will never be able to completely block your twinflame. And that is not the intention, I believe, even if you want to. I know only too well how intensely painful and tiring this entire process can be. But you know, the strongest of the two (you) is the strongest for a reason; you have the power to do this and to get your twinflame along in the long run. Soul love does not just come into your life, you have been chosen to put it so to speak and that only happens because you can handle it. Of course it is a growth process and growing is never without pain and effort. But it also has those intensely beautiful sides that you probably know. So it could very well be that this period is a kind of awareness period for you. A short distance so that both can grow again. That’s how it works here. I haven’t seen or talked to my twinflame for weeks and felt a lot of pain. I also felt cut off from him and “forgotten”. I tried with all my might to let go and I succeeded fairly well. Now I am riding this bike this morning and I all come across license plates with twinflames and their initials and then I see twinflame NG which in my mind was immediately translated into Twin Soul Not Good. When I got home I saw that someone had called and I saw his number! This is another confirmation for me that I can and must trust my feelings. He has not forgotten me and despite everything that is going on, our connection will never diminish, only more. Nobody changes that.
@Arundesh: Nice answer! @ Questioner: someone who loves you will automatically come back on your path. Follow your feelings if you feel that you should contact him. Your Soul Love is in any case busy with you if you feel that he is talking to you. In the awareness process there is always 1 in order to support the other energetically.
It is very possible that this is the time to work on yourself and your own growth. That also gave him the space to work on his growth. I am now literally on the eve of such a period. Tomorrow I’m going to the final exam concert of my ZL. After the summer he will leave for America for two years to do further education there. That was a bit of a swallow when I heard it and the ‘farewell’ will not be easy on me either, I think, but I do see how perfect the timing is. I myself have just started a new course that will make my dreams come true. As long as he’s around, I won’t have any real rest. Soon I will and then I have all the time to work out my plans, just like him on the other side of the ocean. Is this timing a coincidence? No, I don’t know for sure. Just trust (like me) that this rest period is part of a larger plan and that it promotes your individual growth. Don’t waste it! worry about ‘what can be’ because nobody knows that. Also do not over-analyze everything he does or says, but rather listen to your own heart and feeling. Both don’t lie. Finally: you determine and create your own life, so take your responsibility for it. For what others think of that, you can never take responsibility. That is their business and it is not relevant to you. Good luck and strength! but rather listen to your own heart and feeling. Both don’t lie. Finally: you determine and create your own life, so take your responsibility for it. For what others think of that, you can never take responsibility. That is their business and it is not relevant to you. Good luck and strength! but rather listen to your own heart and feeling. Both don’t lie. Finally: you determine and create your own life, so take your responsibility for it. For what others think of that, you can never take responsibility. That is their business and it is not relevant to you. Good luck and strength!