Q1051. Completely finished!

Unknown

I’m done with it! It has brought me so much pain, sorrow and loss, and now I want to continue! In my opinion, soul love leads (or even better: suffers) nowhere. I would like to continue, open myself to someone who can give me love and respect. Who has the golden tip to break the line as quickly as possible, to remove my soul love from my system?

Answer 1
I think that everyone who has met his / her twinflame is sometimes completely done with it. I cannot give you a golden tip, a twinflame cannot be banned from your system, you know that anyway. Why are you so done with it? Does the other person really hurt you or is it your own ego that makes you feel the pain?
(Unknown)

Answer 2
Soul Love is meant to give you a great cleansing through your body. And to let you continue on the right path. Thanks to your soul love, you have now come to this point. Yes without the pain and with everything else you are never who you are now. Are you stronger in life than before or have you become worse from it? If it has made you worse, you are not yet done with the process and you still have some things to learn from your twinflame. The line cannot be broken. You belong to each other and belong to each other. 1. The only thing you can do is accept it, because then it will become a lot less than going through it. And then you still feel each other when you are close together. The dreams will then be less if you have reached that point. Good luck.
(Remco)

Answer 3
The line cannot be cut. The pain, sadness and lack are the parts that you have to learn something from. That is your soul assignment. Why do you feel so much pain, sadness and lack? Did he do that to you? Or did you do it yourself? What is the background of your soul connection?
(Unknown)

Answer 4
Oh, this is my heart, dear questioner! I am in exactly the same boat and I am so incredibly done with it. I try to shut myself off for him, to send him away when I think of him, but it only helps a little. Precisely then I dream intensely about him and those are not nice dreams. Pff, I woke up very angry this morning because his girlfriend was after my husband. I am mercilessly confronted with myself; feel jealousy towards her while I know that no one can ever get between my twinflame and me. He is still beautiful with her and I can’t bear it. In the beginning I thought it was very nice that I granted him and I felt pure unconditional love, which was true. But now that has made way for anger, jealousy, sadness and frustration. You do not always feel what your mind prescribes. As much as I want to be so spiritually “exalted” that I feel nothing but love for them, I cannot. That means that I still have a lot to learn. And I have tobacco because it costs me loads of energy. Running away from it is not possible, I am behind that. It is through it and not around it. Glad I go on vacation in a very short time. Then I can literally get away from it all.
(Unknown)

Answer 5
I get it completely, sometimes it goes well today I have it very hard .. heartburn I get from it. I keep dreaming about him, I feel his presence and I still get signs. Sometimes I think I should have been better off breaking both legs than going to that party 16 years ago .. Not much has to happen to feel a lot of pain … I hope not to experience it again in my next life. I learned to live without him too but now we have no contact at all for 4 months, I know what the problem is, we have the same thing, I less so than him .. it is fear of attachment and with him it is very serious although he is totally unaware of .. I am working now to reduce that slowly, today I have a relapse .. it is heavy when someone does not understand why that happens to him / her. I understand, but it is a pfff sometimes process .. life is not always a party, I try to do as many fun things as possible, go out, make music again and so on but the last few days I feel down again … we had a disagreement, we were back together for 5 months, it seemed to go well, the biggest declaration of love seeing each other as often as possible and so on and then boom away without 1 word, I sent him a message once never had a reaction to it .. I wonder which idiot does that and that I myself am very stupid to fall for someone! 16 fk years already! we were back together for 5 months, it seemed to be going fine, the biggest declaration of love seeing each other’s as often as possible and then boom away without 1 word, I once sent him a message never had any reaction to it .. I wonder what an idiot that does and that I myself am very stupid to fall for someone! 16 fk years already! we were back together for 5 months, it seemed to be going fine, the biggest declaration of love seeing each other’s as often as possible and then boom away without 1 word, I once sent him a message never had any reaction to it .. I wonder what an idiot that does and that I myself am very stupid to fall for someone! 16 fk years already!
(Unknown)

Answer 6
My tip: Go into deep relaxation every day. Take a deep breath. And then say from the bottom of your heart to yourself (your own words, don’t you): I open myself to the person who can give me love and respect. And then see what happens. Do this for example a day or 40. PS This is not going to break the line, because that is not possible.
(Arundash)

Answer 7
I fully understand you. Given the last contact I had with him recently, something has broken into me. I can’t stand his egocentrism. On an energetic level, he continues to pull while I’m really done with it. I thought now that I am ready, I will feel him less, anything but true. The dizziness and the melancholy I find the worst. I know they are not mine and it is more his thing. What I am positive about, that I have come that far.
(Corelijn)

Answer 8
@ answer 7; If your twinflame pulls on you, do you feel dizzy? During periods I have a lot of dizziness, the last couple of weeks so again, and tingling. Sometimes I almost go crazy. I thought that’s because I don’t eat well. It strikes me that sometimes when I talk to other people I also get dizzy, I am probably too open or something.
(Unknown)

Answer 9
The line cannot be cut. The pain, sadness and lack are the parts that you have to learn something from. That is your soul assignment. Why do you feel so much pain, sadness and lack? Did he do that to you? Or did you do it yourself? What is the background of your soul connection?
(Unknown)

Answer 10
Answer 8: At the time when I was still in contact with my twinflame, I suddenly had a headache for dizziness. That meant that he worried a lot and hovered from one thought to the other. He also admitted that he was struggling with problems and could not get out. That goes back to me, my appetite is also reduced. The weekends are the worst, notice that I lose a lot of energy and almost crawl into my bed. I am now too far to let go of each other again. I now feel much more independent than ever. I no longer depend on the feeling that I and my twinflame share. I now also believe that it is about maintaining our individual independence.
(Corelijn)

Answer 11
As others have said, you cannot cut / break the line. Ego wants to think that you are completely done with it. Try to gather your strength together and send love and strength to your soul love that he may quickly gain insights. The person closest to his heart is hurt the most.
(Alicia S.)

Answer 12
Answer 11: I have chosen to continue with my life, with my healthy ego. In my experience with my twinflame I have had to let go. It’s not just about my twinflame, I also have a family that needs my attention.
(Unknown)

Answer 13
I too am done with it, I also feel treated like a mop and I think the best way to do this is to think about what my twinflame has brought me. Her character is terrible and she is addicted to alcohol and pills, so she is not very virtuous. I also think that I am done with the negative and want to live a positive life. Instead of hanging around the victim and sitting around for days thinking about all the misery and soul love and a bond that cannot break, I have decided for myself that I am going in the healthy direction. Even though it hurts, the years I spent with her hurt as well. There are effective days when she calls me, yes, I now know that I will not respond. Instead of doing that, I go to church. Because what is soul love other than love of god? I’m going to talk to god himself now. My soul love has given me that. I don’t know how much you can do with this, but you asked for a tip and to be honest I think it is! super of you that you also choose your healthy side.
(Unknown)

Answer 14
What exactly did your soulmate do that you are so disappointed?
(Unknown)