What if your soul love ignores you? and there is no denying it anymore, but just acting very consciously and pretending to be a stranger. It is no longer fear either, but it seems like deliberate harassment. What if you are confronted on a daily basis with this person who has done the most awful and inhumane things with you, never comes back to something, and one time you walk past a ray as if you are not standing there or another time nodding hypocritical goodbye at the walk by (depending on how his cap is). Who never mentions one word about all the cruel acts or damage he has done, but completely ignores you and is completely absorbed in his own Ego (I even believe he is satisfied with himself). That makes you nauseous and of which you now get a knot in your stomach just in the face of its appearance because so much has happened and has never been spoken. And what if that person is also your twinflame that you will be forced to encounter for the time being. Is deliberate ignoring not the worst form of bullying? For me it is killing, not because we are not together or because he denies, but because despite all the cruel things and rottenness he has fetched with me, I really do not exist for him, because he ignores me AWARE, never on anything returns and presents himself as a holy bean, as if nothing had happened. While that man is really normally imputable! If he ever says hello to me it feels so hypocritical, as if a serious criminal has been acquitted and every day kindly says hello to victims as if nothing happened, it just makes you sick, whether you want to or not. My question; Is conscious ignoring the worst form of bullying? and why does someone do such a AWARE! with his / her twinflame. As a twinflame, how do you deal with this in practice if you get a “thump against your head” (and soul!) Every day at his sight. Do not like answers about fear or “it is your path” or whatever, because we have already passed that stage! everyone is responsible for their own actions and actions every day, and everyone is free to make choices. with his / her twinflame. As a twinflame, how do you deal with this in practice if you get a “thump against your head” (and soul!) Every day at his sight. Do not like answers about fear or “it is your path” or whatever, because we have already passed that stage! everyone is responsible for their own actions and actions every day, and everyone is free to make choices. with his / her twinflame. As a twinflame, how do you deal with this in practice if you get a “thump against your head” (and soul!) Every day at his sight. Do not like answers about fear or “it is your path” or whatever, because we have already passed that stage! everyone is responsible for their own actions and actions every day, and everyone is free to make choices.
I recognize this. In my opinion it has to do with narcissism. Read something about this. Also read something about the silence treatment. In my opinion it is consciously done to provoke a certain reaction. You don’t know how to behave. Try to stand above it. Don’t let yourself be used as a toy. The cat and mouse game. Be happy with who you are. It is not you but him. It is immature of him. Enjoy yourself and be happy and don’t let him touch you. Know that it’s not your fault. Continue. Being independent of the behavior of other people and their judgment. I learned a lot from my Soul Love. A year ago. It is difficult. Make sure that you stay healthy, happy and yourself. Reading a lot is gaining knowledge and especially about yourself. I was also a plaything for other people. You learn that with this and then you are suddenly grateful. So many lessons in a short time.
My twinflame has been ignoring me for 10 years but not in this form. I am not allowed to e-mail her or call her and when I see her she does nothing wrong. She also passes me by as I walk past. You do nothing about it the best you can accept it and continue with your life. It is her choice and I have to accept it. I am her twinflame, but if it doesn’t work, it will stop.
Meeting a new love does wonders … that also soothes the strokes your twinflame has taken. Is my experience. It is better to let him go now that my heart is ‘occupied’ again. Hope for you that will happen to you soon. Then you can move that shit to one side much more easily.
Thank you for your reactions, I have a nice and happy life and a positive attitude to life. His behavior meets all the characteristics of narcissism and even if you search for psychopaths on Google, he fits exactly in that street. Only it goes much farther if such a person is your soulmate, it is not for nothing that there are more severe punishments on mental abuse than on physical abuse. Let alone that there is anything known about the mental abuse of your twinflame, I think that is an unknown phenomenon. You would almost think, he cannot possibly be your twinflame, because soul loved ones do not consciously hurt each other, unfortunately I have a different experience. If someone is able to “touch” you energetically, to penetrate you (sounds incredible but it is possible and it goes very far!) You are a toy, whether you want it or not, someone with bad intentions can do a lot of damage to you. The spiritual world also has many dark sides, no one wants to, but I experience it personally. I have found my way to shut myself off from him, although that does not always work, certainly not as long as I keep meeting him. Furthermore, I have long since given up the courage and hope to get clarity and I am obligated to spend my time with him. Have I ever considered a kind of relocation, but far too many innocents suffer and then I will sacrifice myself for as long as it lasts, but it is a true torture. Perhaps my question was intended to be shared with you in public, because I will never get useful answers. Sharing how distressing and killing it is to meet such a man every day, to have to look at his poker face and watch helplessly as he grasps and cheats on others. Thank you for sharing it with you, I leave it at this.
And I think, even if you do not want to hear that he is having a hard time with it, does not know what to do with it, is afraid, and that he has the courage to say hello to you the times he does is in its power. Nevertheless, his behavior is very difficult for you. I believe that people do not treat each other deliberately in this way.
@ 3, it is very nice for you that you have found a new love. But mind you; you can never forget or eliminate a twinflame from your life. It will always keep coming back until a reunification takes place. Such a new love will always be second best, although many deny it and see it as THE love of their lives.
Let me put my soul first in everything that is magnetic. The goal is to learn from each other and complement each other. This can also be done sexually on all kinds of marbles. If you do not accept your twinflame, it will only get harder for you. If you are very far in the process and look back on it, you know what has helped you. They are hard lessons that I have experienced myself, but it makes you stronger.
@ 6: my new love is also a soulmate. My twinflame is unique because I look a lot like him, but he therefore has no exclusive rights to my love. I can also love another person dearly, as it turns out. Love can also be indescribably beautiful for other soulmates than the one you happen to look like. By highlighting your twinflame so exclusively and placing it above others you can run the risk of throwing the child away with the bath water and thus the most beautiful lesson of love: that it is essentially boundless.
Hereby a final reaction, and I don’t care if he provoked it. Reply 5, I certainly believe he is having a hard time and is scared, but then he is especially afraid of himself because for many years I have lovingly opened all doors for him, I am not resentful, I am not a traitor and anyone in love is welcome. Shame is not the same as being afraid, but then…. And if I were in his shoes I would also find it difficult, he made it from bad to worse to hell, I think I would not even dare look at Myself anymore. But you know, if you have the courage to falsely abuse someone in public and spread lies, and much worse…. a bit strange if you don’t have the courage to correct something that is pure and honest if you believe that you have changed or are actually sorry about things. Who or what you have to lose, except your self-esteem. Making an excuse right in my face is understandably impossible to do at this stage, I do not expect that either, but it can also be done differently and I have already indicated that several times. He does not consciously do it !! And about not deliberately hurting someone…. if you act consciously and you are aware of what you are doing with the other person, and you know that if the other person indicates this several times unless you have a concrete slab in front of you, then there is indeed intention (?) iig is acting consciously. A. If you don’t accept your twinflame … I don’t have that much choice so I surrender, it’s his life. but I don’t have to accept that someone deliberately hurts me (and no that is not in me or between my ears and it is not a lesson that I still have to learn, if someone squeezes you it hurts, then nobody says it is too between your ears). He doesn’t do it anymore, hopefully, he makes an effort not to do it anymore, I notice that. Only playing the stupid is killing, so painful to meet him every day, so schizophrenic to say goodbye kindly, that is the reality, and that has nothing to do with lessons for me, I rather think with lessons for him . But it is his life and his choice to act like this, has little to do with love and respect, but I have to deal with that and I will have to accept that, I have no choice. If he was my partner I could say, I do not accept this behavior from you because you deliberately hurt me and then I have the choice whether or not to live with it. But he is (fortunately) not my life partner and so I have nothing to say about it and my time is up. You choose friends, family or twinflames, you have to deal with that and it is up to you how you deal with that. Despite the confrontations, a twinflame band should be loving according to the stories, I have a different experience, I have no tangible loving memory of him. A mutual acquaintance once said, maybe he will come into your life to save your current relationship, I could not imagine that at the time, but it could just be that he was right about that. Alicia also said somewhere, your 1st impression tells you the truth and she is right… ..
I think it is best that you completely shut yourself off from him. You see him every day, but you have to say goodbye every time. You can also look at it alone or not and look past it. Then you might make him think.
Sitting in the same boat could be my own story…. get well soon…. very happy that your twin is ignoring you! You have doubts in your own common sense and you feel this way of pretending that you are crazy and that everything is just an illusion. Yes what is it difficult for some to give a confirmation a little hint …. is that really asking too much? Apparently yes …
… After 33 long difficult years I managed to free myself from my ex, everything described here was
the order of my relationship, in the end I was so scared that I started to shake when I heard his car fall silent, no matter how frightened I was for the
many consequences, yet I left my (beautiful) home with the help of my family, I lost my child, my pets, my work, my
health, after a tough fight I came pretty well out of divorce and am now incredibly happy with my current sweet gentle man, NEVER
give up the courage !!!
What a recognizable story is this and what bizarre. You describe it almost exactly as my twinflame experiences the contact between me and her. She also finds me selfish, even criminal, because I did not respect her desire to be left alone – after I had made my feelings clear to her via email -. I told her a few times within a few days, because I was confused by the crush and the super-spiritual I experienced in a short time. I am married and have children. I have also heard the terms narcissistic, schizophrenic, but through others. It is not open to any form of contact, it makes me look sick, is disgusted by my presence and now reproaches me for not wanting contact. The way I read and experience it with you is hard language and reproach. A twinflame love stands for the ultimate love and the ultimate confrontation with yourself. You blame him for narcissism, but what is your own narcissism about? Which ego pieces can you work on yourself? You are talking about ignoring, but perhaps you should speak of letting go in love. Your twinflame cannot be ignored. It is in yourself and is part of yourself. It also sounds more compassionate towards yourself. Strength with the acceptance of your twinflame! Your twinflame cannot be ignored. It is in yourself and is part of yourself. It also sounds more compassionate towards yourself. Strength with the acceptance of your twinflame! Your twinflame cannot be ignored. It is in yourself and is part of yourself. It also sounds more compassionate towards yourself. Strength with the acceptance of your twinflame!