My twinflame has been busy for a year now making contact with other women. He even did it while we were in a relationship !! Today he made contact again and I was once again called bitch. That he wanted a super beautiful woman. Friends had also said that he had to stay away from me and did not want contact anymore. My twinflame is on dating sites and sends many messages to other women. At first I thought it was part of his trial, but now I am starting to feel very depressed. If someone does and says such things, isn’t that my twinflame? Can I trust him if we get a relationship again?
No, in my opinion, he is not your twinflame.
Do you want that yourself? twinflame or not, unbearable pain of the lack. But certainly also had the feeling that I had to stay close to myself. Amazement at the enormous pure feeling that happened to me. Also a curiosity as to why this man could touch me so deeply. Aware of the fact that this man, actually “wrong” could feel so pure .. deep union, but certainly allowed him his way, provided that it would have been discussed honestly. That hurt me enormously. Sometimes I don’t even understand that I can have this special feeling? Has made me falter, but still stand, do not let me be tempted by ugly words, statements or jealousy. That is not how it feels at the soul level. It’s not the time for you, I think, that’s how it feels. Take your time and strength. Discover what you consider desirable? Get well soon..
O feast of recognition, this question. My twinflame also has a day job keeping up with his profiles on dating sites, making dates and ending parties and festivals. He is now in a phase of a diligent search for “true love” as he says, while he has already found it. He knows that very well in his heart, but he denies and runs away from it. And what am I doing? Nothing, rien du tout. I know I cannot intervene, tell him how things really stand, not take him by the hand. No, he has to invent it himself and grow into it. He feels he might want a little house with his current girlfriend and I could in principle start a conversation with him (he knows that I am clear-sighted and know him better than he knows himself) but I know that I shouldn’t do that. He will accept things that he will regret later because they do not suit him and rob him of his freedom. But that’s his lesson. He has to learn through experience and I am not in the picture for now. You must accept that your twinflame has to learn his own lessons, no matter how difficult it is. They are no longer children that you have to protect from anything. No, they are mature people who sometimes have to feel if they don’t want to listen (to their own inner knowing!). I say this not because of anger, but because it works that way. The universe knows exactly how to handle every individual and there is nothing by chance. Trust that.
I recognize this very much. That attitude he can take to repel you by saying that you are a crazy person. I don’t know if it’s him either, but I still think about him every day, though I haven’t seen him for a year. It is a flierefluiter. I have my responsibility at home. I am, however, in the midst of a transformation process that has fueled him. He could be very sweet but very ugly. It is one that wants to have its way. I also miss him in whatever form. Contact is no longer an option for us. I don’t dare call him a twin either. I do think he is a special. The goal is clear to me. Learn to let go in all respects and find my true self again. Nothing more nothing less. My earthly relationship is a lot calmer. When I think of him, I get very restless and excited.