Met my soulmate two years ago. He lives a two-hour drive from me, so I can’t meet just like that. In the neighborhood of friends he acts very aloof and when he is alone he does very nice but super shy. I sent him a text message once, but I didn’t like it. I would love to get in touch with him to grow spiritually. Recently he went out to his neighborhood. It was super busy, but energetically it felt like he had seen me. Unfortunately I had no opportunity to chat. (contact in dreams). I really feel that my soulmate is fleeing from me. I actually start to doubt whether it is soulmate. Simply because he is also acting on me. Tips?