The moment I manage to let go of my soul love, and it seems as if I can start my life ‘normally’ again, get some rest, I meet him again, and then come in really hard. Again my whole system is filled with him, and it is thinking / feeling him / her again 24/7, but has disappeared from sight again. It is so clear that my soul love no longer wants contact, and I would very much not like to feel him anymore, and to stop thinking about him, really let go of him. It seems as if he does not grant me my ‘freedom’. I myself will break this, but also my family. How do I get it definitively from my system? Why can he let me go and I can’t let him go?
If you have found that peace and you have come across it once. You already have it under control and you already know what letting go means. Why does your twinflame no longer want to contact you? You always stay connected because you are together 1. That your family life is not going well now, your twinflame cannot do anything about it because he is your other half.
Oh how I recognize this and many with me I think. Do you know how I approach it? Every time my twinflame surfaced in my head, I decidedly but lovingly sent it away with the words “go ahead, leave me alone and you will grow”. That worked, it became quieter and I felt more relaxed. Then there were weeks of rest, after which he contacted again and the whole circus started all over again. I even thought I had heart problems, that’s how the thing went on in my body. But it was all soul love that caused that. It is indeed true that when you let go of the other person in a good way (in love, he or she really feels that!) You will feel the connection between you very pure. That is the gift of letting go.
The only remedy is that you no longer encounter your soul love. My soul love has also left so that he would no longer meet me. Just consult your family about what you should do. clarity and consultation? Moving is a drastic option but that would be the best. I also felt flattered that my twin was moving, which is always a good sign.
I myself have been in an ambulance with an acute hyperventilation so bad it was with me one day. Afterwards it was the accumulated tension of this phenomenon. Now that I have released her, which is actually going step by step. I feel her in my body daily and I didn’t have that when I was still holding her. I increasingly feel the connection between us. We have grown enormously over the years. Now that I look back on it, I see things that I have done well and less well. Although we have no earthly contact, I feel more and more love flowing between us step by step. A wonderful love feeling is indescribable. Now that I have released her, I love her more and more, although it is still in the early stages. Because we haven’t really fallen in love with each other in our dreams. We had to process things first. We do this in love for each other and we therefore have a joint task of resolving the karma of the previous life. By the way, I also met her in an erotic dream yesterday. She was playing with a toys hahah.
Yes would it work that way?!? If you let him / her go and see him? How do you feel when the other person thinks of you? I sometimes have 2 days that I get “crazy” from the idea that we are not together and think so strongly about him, but there are also days when I am less concerned with him … Letting go in the sense of not thinking of soul love is really hard … how do you deal with this? What do you feel Do you have contact with your zl? I do not .. I have it on a profile site and he lives nearby but I do not encounter him after I no longer work in the same department … I still see the symbols and signs that came then … Love
Hi everyone, thanks for sharing your experiences. This is mine. My twinflame has now almost let me go. I think I should learn from this and I do. My own letting go has nothing to do with him alone, is my experience, especially with letting go of thoughts / ego in general. Or rather the need for control. Then I feel a lot of heart warmth and zest for life and that is wonderful. It gives me peace, but I also feel very lonely, now I am in divorce. I have such a need to be with him and talk about it. We are both fully aware that we are each other’s twinflames. He has known it for longer than me and he knows much more about me than the other way around. But have never talked about this face to face. He doesn’t want that. And I just can’t let go of the hope that we come together. Who would, or is that not the intention? By the way, I still see many characters …
“Thinking of someone” suggests an active action, doesn’t it? With a twin, it is a passive event, the twin is always in your mind, without any prior effort is my opinion. It is therefore impossible to remove it from your mind. It is just there, without being compulsive. Then it would be a disorder. This is not an obsession because you actually have that soul love in mind through the chakra connection between the two, in particular of twinflames. Something that happens between chakras cannot be a disorder. Chakras are your energy centers and they cannot be removed either, haha. ), and all kinds of other things that keep you centered,
You make the choice yourself that you are supposed to come together. Another person does not have to judge if you feel very good with your twinflame then you just have to do it.
@ answer 8: is it not true that there are 2 who then have to make the choice to come together? What if 1 does not want?
Hi, I was in answer 6. Thanks for the insight Wieweet of that active / passive, I think that’s right, and for the tips! What I still wonder about your answer 3. Does this mean that your family is aware of you? And why is moving a good sign? Hats off for how long you have been faithfully answering on this site. (Ben himself dropped out because it confused me, thought at a certain point that my twinflame was here inventing all kinds of stories here, but that was of course not true at all. Although he is good at that). O and answer 4 do not know why, but I feel related to this text in a strange way. Only not being in love and the toys (???) I don’t recognize. If one thing is not necessary … well, your own imagination will probably be.
It is not an obligation that you must have a relationship. But I sometimes wonder what it would be like in an earthly relationship with her that seems exciting to me. That the 1 does not want you just have to respect.
It is not always a matter of not wanting, but sometimes not being able to. Then other things must first be completed in the earthly. But energetically, that love is there.
Answer 10 I also feel that some texts come very close with my experiences here on the forum. Even when I read certain texts it seems that they are the texts of my twinflame very strange. How nice would of course be if she were here. Then we can talk about our experiences. Now that I have released her I experience a great loss. I feel her alone, but she no longer appears in my dreams. I also recognize texts by touching your twinflame. With those virtual hands and her hair around her waist and stuff.
To answer 13; I also have that I “recognize” some texts here as if they could have come from my twinflame. You never know do you? The fact is that many who have their twinflames in their lives have the same experiences so it is not so strange. You say that you have released your twinflame … do you never see each other in daily life? And about those dreams; especially if you do not focus too much on it, it will come to your dreams, give it a try. It also sometimes helps to try to make contact with her before bed and to ask if she will come to you. Sounds floating but sometimes it works for me.
Until recently, I was left with that problem: I didn’t know how to separate myself from my twinflame. Until I read something in a book about auras (writer Susan G. Shumsky) In short it means that you imagine (at the same time saying aloud affirmations) that you loosen and heal psychic ties with your twinflame. However, by loosening this you strengthen the love ties. I tried it and I succeed and it really is as she described it. Very nice.
Hi 13 (I was 10) You released her? Can you tell me why and how you did it? And how do you see your future? I myself experience a bit more peace, but on the other hand also a very deep sadness and lack. Are you sometimes angry with her? Because I feel like I never want another man again, I was so mad at him last week. I find it difficult that sometimes I am so angry, I want to be nice to him. That is difficult because, among other things, he is not fair. I never know where I stand when he shows something of himself (he might as well be mirroring me). Feel like a stalemate.
Answer 10 Yes, we are crawling nicely to the 1000 questions with answers! I use soulliefde.nl as a kind of filter: what applies to me and what can I use less for my development? At one point I started using a nickname because I knew: there will come a time when my twin will do all this is going to read and then he has a nice summary about how it went over the past four years. I already saw it in my solo of 2009: active in a group, haha. go ahead, so I keep myself in this, because my twin is in its own process. For example, I learned yesterday that we are going to collaborate and live for 14 years and then leave this world together. are in control, but I only get those messages. By the way, I don’t have a family, I meant the family in general. It is a good sign if the twin is going to move because otherwise the band could become too strong too early and that would only be disastrous for our both development process. And if someone moves for you, it means that you matter. if someone is late, there is no reason to move, other than for his profession or wish of wife and / or children. He is a doctor and about a week before I met him in the hospital, I looked at an old lecture on the internet a gynecologist about dealing with patients. And my twin operated on me because of an ovarian cyst, well then the warning from the reading was clear to me and another doctor said strictly: “Five years of control!” So above, so below. By the way, I don’t have a family, I meant the family in general. It is a good sign if the twin is going to move because otherwise the band could become too strong too early and that would only be disastrous for our both development process. And if someone moves for you, it means that you matter. if someone is late, there is no reason to move, other than for his profession or wish of wife and / or children. a gynecologist about dealing with patients. And my twin operated on me because of an ovarian cyst, well then the warning from the reading was clear to me and another doctor said strictly: “Five years of control!” So above, so below. By the way, I don’t have a family, I meant the family in general. It is a good sign if the twin is going to move because otherwise the band could become too strong too early and that would only be disastrous for our both development process. And if someone moves for you, it means that you matter. if someone is late, there is no reason to move, other than for his profession or wish of wife and / or children. He is a doctor and about a week before I met him in the hospital, I looked at an old lecture on the internet a gynecologist about dealing with patients. And my twin operated on me because of an ovarian cyst, well then the warning from the reading was clear to me and another doctor said strictly: “Five years of control!” So above, so below.
Releasing a twinflame goes step by step. At a certain moment you know how to do that you feel it. I would really like to come to her in the future. And I think that we are both ready for that we are mature and that we are overflowing with pleasure and longing for each other. But I’d rather already meet her under a tree in the tall grass. And that she is in my arms. Because we don’t have to say anything because our souls speak the language of love. And everything will be in ecstasy if our bodies touch each other. I kiss her lips like sweet honey The passion of passion will go on for a long time because we are forever connected. Now that I have released her, I am amputated again. I can feel her but I hardly see her anymore in dreams or the astral world. No, I don’t get angry that quickly, a lot has to happen. It may well be that he mirrors you and then you again. Why isn’t he fair?
Well answer 18 that is possible in the Song of Songs in the Bible (or the Tenach) it seems like 1 of the songs of Solomon, that might have been a twinflame with that shepherdess; 0… ..
Hi 18, understand that a certain amount of spiritual development is important in this story. In my opinion, the desire and the ability to be completely confronted with yourself and to ‘tackle’ everything. The completion of certain matters can also be important. Is that the reason to let her go? Or is there another reason? What I wonder: when are you spiritually mature and how do you know? Have we not been doing this all our life on earth? And isn’t it possible that at a certain moment you can only continue to grow spiritually together? Think that my twinflame is not fair because he wants to remain anonymous and because he wants to show me things (mirroring) so that I learn. On the other hand, he wants to know things about me. I tell him everything as it is, because in the past I was not honest myself (or rather did not dare to face / suppress my feelings). He also gives me chunks of information, but then sketches different scenarios about how he felt at different ages (too complicated for me to keep up with). And also that he sometimes takes care of me telepathically. For that reason, I do not always know whether it is about his own preference or experience, for example, or whether he mirrors what he has received with me.