Q0928. Pre-destination or not?


I would like to be sure that my twin and I will meet again, if that is intended. But what I am worried about is a kind of roller coaster of welles / staples / welles / staples. Let me explain: I feel my twin from a distance, we never see each other. I hope we can get in touch again in the future. If he feels an emotional approach, I feel that the future is bending towards contact (perhaps more). But when he closes again, I feel that he is also changing the future between us and that contact may no longer take place. But what should I trust now? On something that is already fixed, or on a future that seems to be feasible? All of this often gets me out of balance. Some things are definitely fixed ??? Surely in some cases the “spiritual world” will cause things to happen anyway?

Answer 1
It depends on how many lessons you have already learned in the previous lives and how many lives you still have to go, I think. The older the soul, the more fixed it is, the less free choice one has. This also applies to twinflames. (my twin and I) are in our last life and that has been fixed from birth. If you come together in this life you get packaged messages and signs about it. And in our case, one half gets them through from above and then passes the message on to the other half, at a time specified above, very timed and dosed. That is because the other half has to let go and give up a lot for reunification, therefore in bits and pieces, for its daily work to be able to continue to do so. If I may add this, someone who very well describes the state of affairs for soul reunification,

Answer 2
It really is what you describe. They give you hope but they can’t. Could it be that he has enormous fear of attachment? That in those five years he went for less because he was so confronted with your fear? That he now wanted to see if he (and you) could handle it now? Perhaps it felt so intense again for him (because of your strong feelings that I recognize!) And he immediately became scared again. Believe that his feeling is real to you! But it is too intense for him. It’s not entirely fair what he does to you, I think. If it is his fear, he can’t do much about it, but he should still be able to put himself in you. Apparently he’s not ready for it yet and it’s all about his fear. I have also been in such a situation and you can hardly be angry because you love someone so unconditionally. But on the other hand you can also expect that someone wants to work on themselves and learn to deal with those fears. But then the person must be aware of that fear. Which! he hurts you so much indicates somewhere what selfishness I think, but I know, you forgive him for that too. As for those intense feelings of yours: I read somewhere that love is altruistic, and desire selfish. I am now working on this myself and also still getting stronger myself, being in my own strength and being less dependent, because perhaps there is also the bottleneck there. I hope you find my answer useful. In any case, I understand very well how you feel. It sucks … But keep going! You can do it!!! You are not alone! Together we are strong! :))(Unknown)

Answer 3
I think it’s predetermined, so it doesn’t matter what you or he do. If it has to be like that, it will be like that someday. Life knows strange ways, believe me. Even though both twinflames live on other sides of the world, it still doesn’t matter. What must come together comes together, but in time, you cannot influence that. (Unknown)

Answer 4
It is intended that you come together when the feeling is good towards each other. It takes a lot of time and confidence. The purpose of loosening and holding on is to share something together. So that he and she can get closer to each other. (Unknown)

Answer 5
You don’t get that certainty. The future is indeed not certain. We constantly make him together. You play your own role in this. It is true that if someone closes, he changes the future in that sense. But when it opens again, it also changes the future. As soon as you start to believe that his closing is something final, you make that true to yourself, in other words, you also close yourself to what can happen. Indeed, nothing irrevocably happened on the other side. So there are new opportunities every minute, every second. Keep the love that you have together in your positive imagination, and do not allow it to be taken over by negative images that you feel coming into you. Those are no more than memories of fears that you can release as well. You may believe that nothing can ultimately separate you. You cannot record how that works out. The spiritual world cannot help but create what you yourself make room for within. Without telling them what you think should happen. And without creating a time frame. Remember that the free choice of your twinflame is just as important as yours. Are you ready yourself? Do you have to do anything yourself before you are ready for your twinflame? Then you now have plenty of time to work on that. (Unknown) Are you ready yourself? Do you have to do anything yourself before you are ready for your twinflame? Then you now have plenty of time to work on that. (Unknown) Are you ready yourself? Do you have to do anything yourself before you are ready for your twinflame? Then you now have plenty of time to work on that. (Unknown)