Q0923. Letting go

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She can make me angry like no other and I can make her. Quarrel for the umpteenth time again, without relationship Yet she chooses to deny her feelings and repels me. Why? I absolutely cannot deny why? several people have already told me what confirmed my feeling. We’ve known each other for years, and were best friends. Still, she decided a month ago after the fight to have no more contact. Was angry because she allows herself to be used for sex, which also hurts me so much. Have I told her several times that I love her but she can’t handle it, and does she prefer this type of man? Miss her very much! Why do I still believe in her while she rejects me so much? Why does she choose this? Why can’t I just continue? there are plenty of girls that I have contact with and who really like me? but I cannot forget her. Whatever she does my love for her feels unconditional. Staying friends and seeing her so unhappy because of her own choices is too difficult.

Answer 1
I think it is the divine plan, things sometimes go magnetic that you do not fully support. You can see that when you are used, but they are just lessons. To come closer in love. (Unknown)

Answer 2
If you continue to believe in her, it is clear that she is your twinflame. That she is your goal. You just don’t know where that is somewhere in time. You say she denies her feelings, which may mean she’s not ready. She apparently wants to do something else first. It can be difficult enough in itself to still have to keep a distance. She does not even have to consciously know the reason for this. But do you think that if you got together NOW, it would be a great relationship? If you have known her for such a long time, you may be able to guess what kind of process she is in. Once you understand it, it may be hard to bear. Or you are looking for help, maybe there is something in a past life that can help you understand. I admire your allegiance to her, which is in fact a allegiance to yourself, and wish you much strength.

Answer 3
Reply to reply 2: I honestly never thought I wanted that. Well, if he had hurt me, I had feelings of “now it’s over I want to get rid of you”. But this time it seems different. It is as if I have grown so much that I no longer want to depend on him. He is always there and it seems like he is in charge of everything that happens in my life, who I meet, for example. And I don’t want that anymore. A very important point for me is that a few months ago I discovered that he had a different zodiac sign than I initially thought. I am Virgo and I always thought he was Capricorn. And those 2 fit very well together, because both “earth” signs. Only recently did I discover that my twinflame is an “air” sign namely Gemini. Unbelievably bizarre because of Gemini men I don’t need anything, or in other words, I don’t get along well. With the Gemini women by the way, strangely enough. It doesn’t change the fact! that we are twinflames or at least soulmates, but now I understand why it sometimes clashes between us and at the same time not at soul level. I currently have a strong need for other “earth” be it Taurus or Capricorn. My partner is also “air”: Aquarius. also interesting: so I think my twinflame had a hand in this. In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown) oddly enough. It doesn’t change the fact! that we are twinflames or at least soulmates, but now I understand why it sometimes clashes between us and at the same time not at soul level. I currently have a strong need for other “earth” be it Taurus or Capricorn. My partner is also “air”: Aquarius. also interesting: so I think my twinflame had a hand in this. In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown) oddly enough. It doesn’t change the fact! that we are twinflames or at least soulmates, but now I understand why it sometimes clashes between us and at the same time not at soul level. I currently have a strong need for other “earth” be it Taurus or Capricorn. My partner is also “air”: Aquarius. also interesting: so I think my twinflame had a hand in this. In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown) but now I understand why it sometimes clashes between us and at the same time not at the soul level. I currently have a strong need for other “earth” be it Taurus or Capricorn. My partner is also “air”: Aquarius. also interesting: so I think my twinflame had a hand in this. In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown) but now I understand why it sometimes clashes between us and at the same time not at the soul level. I currently have a strong need for other “earth” be it Taurus or Capricorn. My partner is also “air”: Aquarius. also interesting: so I think my twinflame had a hand in this. In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown) In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown) In short, it comes down to the fact that I really need “earth” and that is why I want to let go of my twinflame, or rather: he me. And he doesn’t do that. If I let him know, I am afraid that he would do everything to bind me. (Unknown)

Answer 4
attn: ANSW 2 Arundash: it is exactly as you say “the lack of privacy” but what I experienced as heaven until about a few weeks now feels like a curtailment. I feel a strong need for privacy, I no longer want my twinflame to look over my shoulder. And so far I do not know how that is possible now, he is about 400 km from me, how can he influence my life. I don’t want that anymore at least at the moment and I don’t know how long that will last. I think it is very important for me to stay with my own feelings and that seems to be impossible if the twinflame “looks”. (Unknown)

Answer 5
I also have the experience that sticking to my own feelings is difficult. But I had to accept that I feel something of my twinflame, even though she sat on the moon. Distance plays no role here, it goes beyond time and space. It is also not possible to ignore this connection. Are you concerned about clarity about what belongs to you and what belongs to the other? Or simply about his presence in your feelings? That he intervenes as it were? (Arundash)