The contact between me and my twinflame runs quite smoothly, even though we don’t see each other much. If there is contact personally / mail it is good. We have had a relationship before that. Now that I have learned to stay closer to myself and have no expectation of my twinflame, it feels good to me. What I wonder; On an energetic level, I feel that he is sending various signals, it varies from pulling, heat, unrest. I usually get along well. Can someone tell me what the intention is that I should feel the feelings of my twinflame? Could it be that I have to learn to shut myself off from this, that I have to make myself stronger or what? The difference between us; that I can express my feelings more easily and have self-confidence. My twinflame has a negative self-image and is much in his head instead of his heart. So it makes him take little or no initiative because he is afraid of being rejected.
It is a way of communicating. Twinflames seek support from each other. NEVER shut yourself off, because then you shut yourself off and that will make you pretty unhappy. Sending back love and energy is my advice. At some point you will also pull on your twin, it goes back and forth. It’s all temporary. And then it is the other person’s turn again. Why did your relationship stop? Can you live without each other so easily? (Who knows)
Thanks for your response in any case. I believe what you say is not about closing, I believe in the bond that we will always have. I ignore it because it doesn’t always suit me, for example in a meeting at work or if I have individual consultations, I mean. I am convinced that closing is also necessary for the process of your self and twinflame. I have had a period in which I completely shut off my twinflame and kept every contact. After 4 months, a small voice in me told me to let me hear something. I followed it up. What has come out of this that he has now become aware that he has missed me enormously in those 4 months, did not feel good and afraid of losing me. Now loving him has come to the surface and was shocked that he had these feelings for me. Now he is finally ready to do something for our ‘relationship’, or in deeds. And what I learned from it, yes, I can now be happy without him. The 4 months that I avoided contact have been good for me to come to the last part of my own happiness. Oh yes, I wish him all the luck and also send him that energy. The roles are now reversed, he wants to go for it and I go for the small steps. I don’t want to lose myself in my twinflame anymore. I believe that everyone has their own experience, but realistically, I go for the harmony that lives in me. I also believe that he can also have a good life without me, only he is not that far yet. You must not forget if your twinflame is very much in his ego eg stubbornness, negative self-image, want to dominate, you still have a long way to go. We must remain realistic, before I met my twinflame, I also had a life without him. That was a great life. Now that I have met him, I have taken out my lessons from which I had to learn and still learn. My logic about the experience I have with my twinflame, that we both have to deal with old-timers and that we have to become spiritually independent to live together without losing ourselves. In short; Looking for the power in ourselves. (Manon) that we both have to deal with old-timers and that we have to become spiritually independent to live together without losing ourselves. In short; Looking for the power in ourselves. (Manon) that we both have to deal with old-timers and that we have to become spiritually independent to live together without losing ourselves. In short; Looking for the power in ourselves. (Manon)