I hope my twin will come back to my life, but I don’t know for sure. Maybe it is destined for us to come together again, but he also has a free choice in that. What is more important, that freedom of choice or that predestination?
I don’t know if I understand your question correctly, but when I read it, I wonder if it matters that one weighs more than the other. Predestination is something very beautiful for those who believe in it, but what is the use of predestination if the other person (un) consciously opposes it? Because in that case, that which I thought was destined does not come true. That only leads to disappointment. In addition, it is the harsh reality of the here and now that we have to do in this life. That’s why I think it’s important for my life to enjoy the here and now. I now know that my soulmate and I cannot be together, but it has taught me to be fully present again and to enjoy very small things. Be in the here and now, because life passes you by if you are stuck in the past or if you are too busy with the future. Good luck! (Unknown)