I have known my twinflame since I was a child and I already had a sense of recognition, I did not know what, I was still young and did not want to commit myself quickly. When he was dating and living together, I didn’t like that and I didn’t think they fit together, he wouldn’t be himself, I thought, and I couldn’t explain where that feeling came from. Afterwards that feeling was right. After many years and a relationship behind him and also his relationship was over, I got dream images about him and he about me and subsequently we met “by chance”. We had a relationship and that felt like coming home to both of them. He and I had not experienced this intense feeling before. The amalgamation was there, an overwhelming experience for both, so a real twinflame feeling, both in one. However, the relationship failed, because we both had a different (practical) way of life. This caused a lot of pain and intense sorrow for both him and me – I could no longer work, collapsed completely and needed therapy, in which I felt that I was in the twinflame. happening (mentioning that I had not heard of the twinflame term at the time) was not understood, it was said that I could quite well find another partner where I would find the same feelings, had to let go of him, etc. Impossible. My twinflame. continued to work, but also had a hard time, also “collapsed”, he told me later The love remained and so we met again and then got “relationship” again, then it went wrong again, then again for a few months nothing , and then contact again. So attract, repel. He thought I ‘claimed’ too much, but he also felt strongly connected in love. It went “out”, then I lived as an alien person “occasionally” took a man, but did not feel what I had experienced with twinflame, that feeling remained. He had a relationship with someone else at the time, which eventually ended. And so we met again “by chance” 3 years ago, and he then told me that what we had was special and deep, but that depth had subsided. Still, especially because I wanted to, we met again, under his conditions, and since then we have had a kind of bar-relationship, in which he sets his conditions, me. I am the follower, but because I like to be with him and therefore feel good, I also let that ‘fusion’ happen again and again, but I do not always feel comfortable with it, whatever I indicate, which in turn gives rise to conflicts and it actually comes down to if I do not want to adapt, I will have to give up this relationship. He feels that depth, as he no longer initially says, while that feeling has never left me !! (And yet he also likes it with me. He does not break the relationship.) Also, I see it, we were not put in each other’s way again for nothing, “I were always” accidental “encounters, I think by huh! t universe, but he probably doesn’t see it that way ?? How is it possible that the twinflame. feeling with him is no longer there? with me, because I already felt it then as permanent and knew it, he also experienced it that way and also said that this is permanent, but now that has changed ?? How is that possible? What is then of value from the spoken word ??? It confuses me and I now doubt whether he is my twinflame or not? But I still love that feeling! And it hurts me deeply that he is now in such a state. Because of this, I also lose faith in my “guide”, universe that has clearly passed it on to me as well as to him, (only he doesn’t do anything with that.) Does he no longer feel “armor” applied? Or do I enter that? Maybe there is someone with a similar experience? I hope for a supportive answer. I don’t know it all anymore. universe that clearly passed it on to me and to him, (only he doesn’t do anything with that.) Does he no longer feel, “armor” applied? Or do I enter that? Maybe there is someone with a similar experience? I hope for a supportive answer. I don’t know it all anymore. universe that clearly passed it on to me and to him, (only he doesn’t do anything with that.) Does he no longer feel, “armor” applied? Or do I enter that? Maybe there is someone with a similar experience? I hope for a supportive answer. I don’t know it all anymore.
Annoying for you! Your situation is different from mine, but there are also similarities. My twinflame does not want to see me and I often have a hard time with that, I start doubting etc. And then I am also angry with my ‘guide’ that they have let him come my way, all kinds of signals, and then you get then only sadness. Your story looks like your twinflame is just afraid of being so close to someone. You can best estimate that and unfortunately no one else can do that for you. But what I still want to say to your guide: give her a bit more clarity, please! I don’t like it if they make you float like that. Hope you can find some more answers. (Unknown)
You cannot shift all responsibilities to “your guide”. As a person you also have responsibilities and especially if you are spiritually developed it is an art to find a good way in that. It is too easy to shift everything to “the universe” or “your guides”, do not forget that ego is a very important jammer when it comes to getting through “pure messages” because how pure are the messages as you still are you have to process a few things. If you yourself do not walk your mapped path, because you always have that freedom, then the universe can do anything to get you on the right path, to help, but ultimately you yourself largely determine your path. (Unknown)
It may also be that he has finished his lesson and that you have to go even further in your own process. As I read, you still depend on him, the fear of losing him. Why are you afraid? I also gave up my twinflame some time ago because my life took a completely different turn. I was treated by my new environment to my values and standards. While my twinflame could never meet that, at least not now. It does not mean that I no longer feel that connection between him and me, on the contrary. Now that I am heading in a different direction, I can still feel it but have accepted it. It no longer concerns me whether or not we come back together. Your process to take full control of your own life. Have faith in yourself. (Marian)