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It is quite confronting to suddenly meet your twinflame after years of happy marital life. Not that I was looking for it, not even knowing about existence. From the beginning I talked openly about it with my wife, because I could not fully grasp it myself anymore. In the beginning it was not so bad, but it becomes more and more difficult. My wife has clearly indicated to be afraid that I would leave them. Although this is not in my head. This causes a fight in my head. I can talk about everything with my twinflame, have deeper conversations and laugh heartily. There is a strange attraction that goes beyond everything. I don’t get it explained to my wife who I love to see. For your information: the relationship between my twinflame and her partner has not improved since then either. Their marriage has not been going well for a long time. Sometimes I have the feeling to leave everything behind me, but then I think about it even more. It doesn’t bring me any peace. I ask myself how other twinflames deal with this in a similar situation.
Answer 1
Sometimes I also wonder why everything should go so ‘difficult’ in life. But what is evident and clear to us can indeed be perceived as threatening by our partners. I don’t think we should force anything, just out of respect for our partners. I myself am so offended by another man and I know that there is a mutual attraction; but I personally would never leave my husband (and that man not his wife, I know that for sure) just because of what I promised him at our marriage and I do not expect anyone else to ‘betray’ his wife and leave! Because I actually see that as a betrayal. My conscience could not bear and tolerate such a thing at all. Real and deep happiness would therefore be hard to find. As an adult – who knows how to take on responsibilities – we know well enough where the right path leads and this life simply means that you cannot get everything you want; it is part of the fact that sometimes you have to give up something or have to do with ‘less’ than you would like. We have a heart with feelings and we have common sense. That mind indicates the guidelines for our heart, I am convinced of that. But it requires character strength and (self) discipline. Sometimes feelings are so strong and overwhelming, which involves a lot of suffering and pain. But that, too, I think is worth fighting for and continuing to fight. Only that makes love pure, authentic, pure and genuine. And it transforms us into real people who are deep and true. As hard as that may be: is it not possible that you talk to 4 together, the 2 couples together? Such a radical step to leave your husband or wife is not an option in my own eyes, all the more because true love is also present in your own marriage. Could we not just try very hard to put aside our egoism – which is so often present in us -? It seems like a sermon, but I also write this here to encourage myself and to shake myself up! I still have to learn so much by trial and error. It is also difficult for me not to be constantly with that ‘other’. Keep hoping and fighting! Mg. (V.) Could we not just try very hard to put aside our egoism – which is so often present in us -? It seems like a sermon, but I also write this here to encourage myself and to shake myself up! I still have to learn so much by trial and error. It is also difficult for me not to be constantly with that ‘other’. Keep hoping and fighting! Mg. (V.) Could we not just try very hard to put aside our egoism – which is so often present in us -? It seems like a sermon, but I also write this here to encourage myself and to shake myself up! I still have to learn so much by trial and error. It is also difficult for me not to be constantly with that ‘other’. Keep hoping and fighting! Mg. (V.)
Answer 2
Oh, how we live in a intellectual society! we have lost ourselves. We have learned to use common sense, but your feeling is what your soul transmits to you, the guide and our ego does not want that! It is a struggle if you recognize your twinflame and it is a choice whether you let your mind or your feelings guide you. (Unknown)
Answer 3
You do not love that person who is your twinflame, but you love his or her soul. So you do not marry your twinflame for the law or for the church. The union with your twinflame is forever. So if you are married and the marriage is good, then you stay with your husband and children. If the marriage is unlivable, then you leave that man or woman, because the marriage is bad and that has nothing to do with your twin. So you can love your husband and your twin only the depth of love is very different. You love your husband with your heart, you love your twin with your soul. If you feel that you can separate this properly then you can have a twin relationship with it. This is a very difficult task, but you can ask for support from the universe to keep life bearable. And you are helped by the universe because it is the universe that allows you to encounter your twin in this life. I can imagine that there are people who experience and feel it differently because each couple has its own assignment. (Unknown)
Answer 4 Reply 1
, nice thought, with the 4 of us in conversation, if that would be possible … then we can all go to live nicely in 1 house haha, fear that that will not work. and ANS.3 I experience that this is a very difficult task, as far as I am concerned, it is slightly expressed, I think it is an almost impossible inhuman task. And help from the universe … I think that there is in the form of my twin saddles with fear of attachment or something, I immediately have an acceptable reason for his behavior , maybe that I (or that we otherwise) can not fulfill our mission , whatever that may be, pfff (Unknown)
Answer 5
Another person cannot understand that special attraction unless they themselves have experienced it. The environment sees the strong bond between you and is jealous of this and will try to intervene consciously and unconsciously. If you are in a fight, you have to listen to your feelings. Not the fear of what might happen. Think who you will be the happiest with and who will stay with you. Both ladies can pull on you, make sure that you are able to listen to your feelings and not what is being said. You cannot forget a twinflame. Every day, at every moment you will think of your twinflame. When you try to forget your twinflame, you will start thinking more about her. This peace will only come when you and your twinflame are together … Gr. (Alicia S.)
Answer 6
Yes recognizable. Here too a relationship and a family. And I’m really not sure about the future, or actually. I notice that I am increasingly getting away from my partner, and I am not doing anything for that, I do not like to notice (you still want to keep your family together) and sometimes try to keep up appearances, nothing about the hand, but that often only works. It is as if he sometimes injects poison into me (of which I have it anyway) with the things he sometimes does and says. Here partner knows nothing, but he does sometimes notice and see something. I do notice that I am getting stronger since I try to get along better with my feelings. Very honestly, I think, it’s just a matter of time (that I really can’t do it anymore), but I find that very difficult to notice. Because I do love him, but sometimes that might not be enough. Oh yes and something else; do not believe in your own myths, especially if you do not have contact with your twin, things might be wrong! other than you think. I have been busy and continue on my feelings and then it will all be fine. (Unknown)
Answer 7
It is funny how you bring it “poison”, I always call that enchantment. How often, especially in the beginning, I didn’t think “OK now break the spell again” because I’m tired of it. Then I intend to do things or not anymore and then with 1 glance or word I go for the ax again, sometimes I am completely off the card, really ridiculous when you consider that we do not even have normal contact with each other … then once in a while you really start to doubt whether it is not just brainwashing and whether you are not just crazy and need a psychiatrist. (F.)
Answer 8
I don’t get that poison from myself, I read it somewhere and then I thought, that’s what my partner sometimes does with me. Then he does or he says something and then I get so mad at him, I never had that before. twinflame does not do that, I have no contact with that either. Sometimes I sometimes think that I am crazy. But that will be the ego as they say it, because when I approach my inner voice and my feelings, it is often quite right and things fall into place. I sometimes find it incredible what you will find out about twin without you being able to know, that you have heard it said or read somewhere, or that you find when you have searched for it. That is what you really get from the universe. And when I consider that the things that sometimes happen are separate, and therefore see myself very much when I see twin or see before me then I think, yes it is real, and fortunately I have not gone mad. (Unknown)
Answer 9
Questioner, what does your heart say? (Unknown)