Can someone tell me how the difference between soul and actual experience and behavior can be so great that you constantly harass, block and kick your twinflame in real life and that at the soul level you are very sweet and tender, experience the best moments together , have many conversations and understand each other? Sometimes, when no one sees it, my twinflame also loves me in the earthly, but when it comes down to it, he prefers to humiliate me to others, tells lies and makes people believe that I am crazy. My soul is far above this, but in earthly things I can’t get any further, I feel veiled and don’t understand anything at all. I just can’t imagine how someone can be so mean and such a person is also my twinflame? Shouldn’t a well-developed soul simply also be loving in the earthly? If someone does not know anything about soul kinship then I can imagine it but that does not play with us, the difference between the 1 and the other is just TOO LARGE, something is not right. I believe that the beautiful stories about karma and past lives are mainly fed by ego, who decides what still needs to be worked out if you both “know” and have reached a certain level? Isn’t there just a huge ego tripper if one of the two twinflames determines that? I believe that the beautiful stories about karma and past lives are mainly fed by ego, who decides what still needs to be worked out if you both “know” and have reached a certain level? Isn’t there just a huge ego tripper if one of the two twinflames determines that? I believe that the beautiful stories about karma and past lives are mainly fed by ego, who decides what still needs to be worked out if you both “know” and have reached a certain level? Isn’t there just a huge ego tripper if one of the two twinflames determines that?
Maybe he is sick? (Unknown)
I think he: – or is not your twinflame – or is very shocked by what he feels and that is why he does that to you. In any case, it is best to talk to a person who does such a thing normally and to say that it is very annoying and that he should stop immediately. If he doesn’t stop you can give him a cookie of his own dough and play hard. Because twinflames or not, everyone must learn this lesson, that you must treat people well. You would do him a favor by tackling him hard, in his own style, and teaching him that life doesn’t work that way. Well and although he is your twinflame, you still have to stand up for yourself. But it could be that he isn’t. My twinflame first bluntly denied his feelings. Still, keep it earthy right now, because this is how you survive these feelings. Success and stand up for yourself !!!
It is very important that you remain pure in soul love, learn to listen to your feelings, do you not want to love it; Get used to it that you can feel the feeling without doing anything with it. if you’re sweetly complicated, work on yourself, meditation really helps. if your sweet shows really disturbing behavior, then stay with yourself, he may not be able to resolve this life …. for you. nevertheless you can move forward together, each separately and you will ultimately be happy that you have met him, even if you do not want a relationship with him for no gold. Stay critical of yourself, if you know that he is not healthy, no relationship material, do you still feel love for him, even after 10 years? This way you stay sharp … success, that’s not easy. (Unknown)
Sometimes they are also the nicest purest people .. (Unknown)
Thank you for your answers, unfortunately no new insights for me, had hoped that someone could tell me something new that I could use. Biscuit from his own dough is not going to work, he has built everything tight, this has been thought through very well and I have no leg to stand on and it makes me deeply sad that he refuses to even talk about it once or REALLY make it clear to be. In his own way he tries to make everything clear to me on a soul level, but I still don’t know for sure if it comes from him, because he simply denies it crystal clear time and time again.and then makes me look like I’m crazy. And when I see him (and I see him often) I just can’t believe that he is the same person with whom I have so much soul contact (split personality?). So many “weird things” and so-called “coincidences” happen that are all right and make the story conclusive for me, but in such a way that you could very well make an earthly explanation! give if you wish. Incidentally, it fits in with the story about narcissism, those people are very good at making others believe that they are normal and that you are crazy :(, but you don’t do that to your soul love? (I don’t have any doubt that he is my twinflame) And I keep looking critically at myself, I have always done so but I have been very stuck for quite some time, may sound strange but that is because he is blocking me spiritually through his behavior, can not say too much about it here. And answer 4, I believe that too, but why? why burden your soul love with so many questions and uncertainty? as a person you simply do not do something like that, and I will always continue to feel love for him, and that is something other than actually wanting or being able to have a relationship with someone, I think those 2 can go very well together but it doesn’t the intention is always … time will tell. I had hoped with so many “experts!” “Here to get an explanation for his behavior because it annoys me, whether I like it or not. And the person from that Reiki treatment … .. just arrange it remotely, please even, and otherwise someone may come to pick me up with his UFO tonight, I don’t feel like it anymore, this is really so mega heavy, no longer possible for a normal person! (Unknown)
If you feel that there are misunderstandings, open communication is of fundamental importance. If this doesn’t work, I would leave him alone for the time being and if he is your real twinflame, he will be back. (Unknown)
Answer 4, how pure and sweetest are you if you yourself start playing god on a soul level and thereby put all earthly norms and values aside and show no feeling and respect towards your twinflame in the earthly? I’m trying to understand, really! hence my question, but I just don’t succeed. Somehow I hope that I overlook something very much and that he is standing in the backyard with his spaceship tonight, stupid stupid of course, but it just doesn’t make me think that anyone can be like that. (Unknown)
I recognize your story and have the same questions as you. And just like you, I don’t understand a thing, it is not so much harassment in public, but mental abuse by not mentioning me to death. As soon as I indicate that a border is being crossed, there is only an infinite silence. You have no idea how terrible that can be, or as long as I am the way he wants me to be, it’s good. I wish I could give you an answer, but just like you I cannot believe that someone can be very sweet on the one hand and so disrespectful on the other. the only thing that comes to mind is fear with a big A, fear to feel, to let someone come close, and maybe that is it, maybe you are too close for him. I know that on a soul level I don’t have to have any doubts, but on earthly level it is almost impossible to maintain, in the end we are still human. Letting go is the best in the end, but I fully understand how difficult that is. You would really like to show someone a different side and how it can be done, but as long as there is no will and no sense of responsibility, then really stop it. The limit lies with you, and you only pass that limit if you can leave all these questions behind. If the questions are gone and the answers are no longer important, there may be air for both of them. I really hope for you that he can see it in time before you are destroyed, but I know from my own experience that there is little hope. Perhaps the soul lessons are too far apart, or you are young twinflames, it is all possible. I wish you a lot of strength, and if you are at the bottom of your own abilities, then you will naturally let go! (Unknown)
Dear questioner: I think that the difference between his behavior and soul may be so great because you cannot leave him alone and that he would like to; be left alone by you. Try that first and see what that will yield after a year or so. Don’t upset yourself, it only makes matters worse and the difference even greater. (Who knows)
Dear Wieweet, I’ve been trying for years, I’ve left him alone for years, and it doesn’t get any better, and the more I leave him alone, the harder he pulls me at the soul level … and the more universe also sends .. and at some point you also want an earthly confirmation and if that is not there then I accept it, but to do a lot more by going to lie and manipulating (and the rest) goes very far, I think, way too far !! Then very big misunderstandings arise, as ANW 6 says, and it is just important to communicate openly to get clarity because otherwise (both of you) will not get any further, you can let go but you will not get any further. (I think that he is the one who can’t let go, among other things because he does not respect my choices?) He should know what he does with his life, but I just do not like it anymore, such a split personality, and do I upset myself with it? I don’t think so, it’s nothing more and nothing less than an extremely frustrating situation that you have to stand above, and I try, as good and as bad as possible. But it is a major obstacle to further growth. Unfortunately I have little choice, I know, moving in this case would still be the best option I think … (unknown) and I try, as good and as bad as I can. But it is a major obstacle to further growth. Unfortunately I have little choice, I know, moving in this case would still be the best option I think … (unknown) and I try, as good and as bad as I can. But it is a major obstacle to further growth. Unfortunately I have little choice, I know, moving in this case would still be the best option I think … (unknown)
If you can put all the questions aside, you are ready to let this go. And your twin too, because if it doesn’t take action; you can’t do it for him .. oh well. I have had enough of it long enough and yes I love my twin but also myself .. I am a bit late. No action is also action, namely not wanting to take your responsibility, but staying safe in your own world. The task we have together, which I have felt very strongly, should I incorporate as well as possible in my life and hide behind karma? no that is no longer for twinflames i think. Saying goodbye and letting go of old beliefs in a loving way is what twinflames should do … even if they get half the world / city / people over them. Stand behind your decision to take up that task, you have not met each other for nothing, release your twin until you meet him / her again or until he / she visits you and wants to see you. I think we should say to each other: you are welcome if you are worthy of this relationship, otherwise it will not work .. dear greetings. (Unknown)