Briefly, I am 48 and a divorced man. I have been living alone for 10 years now. About 18 weeks ago I met a younger person, we looked into each other’s eyes and it was as if a flame flew back and forth, so directly inside. It gave us a feeling that we both have never been able to feel, we both know that we just have his band, that we are apparently soulmates. I myself am quite skeptical about things like that, but this is so pure, I have never experienced it like that in my life. The age difference, I have difficulty with that. He came by for a beer 18 weeks ago and actually never left my mind for a minute. He now lives in my house, where we have a great time. We are not attracted to the same sex, but regularly we have to feel and touch each other. The feeling we have is just so pure and we know from each other that we just never get rid of each other again, now or later, we have also been with paranormal someone and that they are also soulmates from one of our previous lives. It is difficult to release each other, but actually we just do everything together. My question is actually the following: My friend is further than me in his development, and I actually want to accelerate my development. How can I approach that? It is difficult to release each other, but actually we just do everything together. My question is actually the following: My friend is further than me in his development, and I actually want to accelerate my development. How can I approach that? It is difficult to release each other, but actually we just do everything together. My question is actually the following: My friend is further than me in his development, and I actually want to accelerate my development. How can I approach that?
I think that comes naturally when you are together, then you grow automatically. If you respect and appreciate and love each other, I think it will come to you naturally. In the time that I still saw my twin, things went fast, now I feel less so because missing each other continues to disturb my / our development. (Unknown)
What does it matter how far you are in your development, it is about the love that you feel for each other, how wonderful for you, enjoy it and that development continues, if you are each other’s soulmate you stimulate and help each other in everything, then you are not in each other’s way but you enrich each other’s lives. (Unknown)
You have no control over your spiritual development. I assume you mean that? At its best, your soulmate can help on an energetic level to make you jump into your consciousness. And for the rest: the universe takes care of that. But the fact that you want it there may be an opportunity, an opening to more. (Unknown)
As soon as you find happiness in yourself, and find it in yourself (because it is in your eyes) and find peace from this dependence, the process goes faster. You should not want to be with him out of dependence, not out of love sorrow, you must have processed everything completely. You have to want to be together just out of love. So you have to become free from the need to keep pulling on that person. Love this person unconditionally, even at a distance. Give him room to find out that he belongs to you. (Unknown)
Thank you for your answers, it certainly helped you, the coin actually fell last Saturday, as it is called. We do release each other, we both know that we just belong together, feel our friends, acquaintances and environment and just see our bond, our commitment. We both know that we are together for something, but we do not yet know what it is for, but we do have a lot of friends (actually our friends are mixed into 1 large circle of friends). everyone also sees that, despite age differences, we just have a band where nothing comes between. Sometimes it is difficult, especially since my life has changed a lot, since after our commitment I started to think very differently about certain things (eg spiritual), and I am becoming more open to influences such as telepathy.
Yes, that’s how it is; you often get what you ask for. If you send positive wishes into the cosmos, that is just fine. In terms of spiritual development there is no more on your plate than you can handle, you can be sure of that. Enjoy it because it is beautiful. I also have telepathy with my tiwn, especially during our dreams, and that is very special. I just know what he’s doing, and I always feel connected to him. Conversely, that is less conscious, he is not yet able to understand his feelings very well. But that will come, I wish that…. (Unknown)