Is it true that you can actually say that the attraction is always done by the one who is further in his / her spiritual development (X), and the rejection is always done by the person who is not nearly as far (Y)? But if the one who is further, X, stops attracting (can therefore let go), then does the other, Y, attract? But if Y attracts, I can’t imagine X repelling. Or is that possible? And is X always the one with the greatest grief? I have always assumed that the attracting and repelling game is played by both twinflames, but I don’t think so at all. Or right?
You ask something there. I can only tell from my own experience. Although my twinflame on a conscious level does not want us to be twinflames either, his subconscious does not participate in that denial and I feel that he does know it on a soul level. To the outside he often shows something else, he has a thick wall around him. Occasionally the wall falls and I gain access to his true self. Those are the moments of attraction. We then have nice conversations and the atmosphere feels good. Rejection also happens very often, actually always comes from him and is painful. For example, he is only texting on his phone (I don’t know who he is with, but he smiles remarkably and knows that I can see that). That sometimes hurts. But at those moments I close my feeling for him, I block it and it seems as if he notices because immediately afterwards he can look me in the eyes so intensely and for a long time that it makes me warm. I also notice! that if I have blocked him emotionally because I want a moment’s rest, he just pulls more towards me, by calling me or because I get signs from him. So it comes from both sides here, but he does the repelling more than me. (Unknown)
What I am currently experiencing is that we both no longer attract and / or repel, that you grow towards it and that you both stand firmly in your own shoes is the most important thing, actually I am already very far away and I do not know very well how it is with twin, but I think we have both put the pull on / off behind us .. we long for each other but we are less and less dependent on what the other is doing..think me..but the lack remains, so stabbing Occasionally upside down, if you are not together I notice that and that is difficult. (Unknown)
Here X speaks to the more advanced in spirituality and the oldest in age (ahum), our previous life was a very intense, turbulent time of attracting and repelling, for three years. Now we don’t have this, no contact except telepathic. Also nice but still a schizophrenic situation. When I see him on the internet, smiling posing for the camera with his children, I think: Who is this strange young man, who has such a spic and span for each other during the day, with an income of more than two times average, a nice house and (no doubt) a nice woman? With whom I have been in the belly together too? Who claims me energetically at night? And pulls on me when I just think of another man (yes, that happens sometimes, sorry twin). “It’s a strange thing for sure …. then I get a little twin shy. (Unknown)
My twinflame constantly repulses me. I regularly sought contact as a conscious person and always got the lid on my nose. Now that I have stopped contacting, I notice that contact is being sought by the other person. Unfortunately still in a way that I cannot and will not accept, even from a twinflame. She does it by inviting FB or linkedin to send it under a different name, but in such a way that it can be recognized that it is her. It just tells me that my twinflame is still putting on a mask. In such a case, I will also dispose of my twin. I want contact, but then she will have to be ready for that. As long as they still put on a mask, contact makes no sense. I regularly feel her energy and we have telepathic contact, but as long as she is fleeing,