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I am sitting in deep sadness on the couch here and it is not the first time that I have felt this way. Attracting and repelling is known to everyone who has to do with soul love, I think. Today I saw my twinflame for a moment and he acted so very aloof. As if he has put a thick cold wall around his heart that I cannot get through. I felt completely rejected while he did not say or do anything special. Just a feeling, but a right feeling. I dreamed twice last week that he just didn’t see me. What is it when his eyes finally open and the walls fall around his heart? Do you know that? I feel so powerless and sad right now.
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Yes, I completely recognize it. Especially in the beginning, when I did not know that we were twinflames. Then I would have seen him, and afterwards I would often be whimpering in the car because he had said goodbye to me or not, or because of what he had said or did not say or how he was behaving. I felt so clearly that he presented himself differently from who he really was and that touched me very deeply. But even later when I did know it regularly happened that I was totally upset by his behavior, especially when we were in each other’s company and he played his “role”, I was also very sad about that. Do not want to discourage me, but I have been a few years further and not much has changed between me and Twin, except that I have learned to deal with it. I wish you a lot of strength and wisdom, love … (Unknown)
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It’s so heavy when your twin doesn’t want you. That cannot be described with a pen. It literally cuts you through your soul. Nobody can hurt you as much as your twin. It ensures that it takes hours, sometimes days, for you to regain so much confidence that you can function normally again. It is like a denial of your existence. How can he NOT want you? It’s your other half !! This pain completely paralyzes you. I recognize the deep feeling of sadness that you experience there on the couch. It takes a lot of power to put yourself back on your feet. But…. you succeed !! You always succeed again !! The stupid thing is, this ultimately gives strength and ensures that your soul grows to such an extent that you can ‘let go’ of your twin a little more in a while and then he will pull … Because the attraction remains whether he wants to or not. He cannot do otherwise in this case. He is not ready yet. This is his way of protection. Only it’s a bit! a pity ‘that the other has such a pain. Love (unknown)
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Thank you, these are very comforting words. And deep down in myself I know it, he and I are forever connected, and it needs time. The one time I experience that cold detachment and the other time it just comes closer than I could have hoped. That happened last night. He came for a visit and we had a nice conversation in which he told a lot about himself. The strange thing was that I already knew everything he said. I know that from my heart, very strange. Or maybe not, because I am so closely connected to his soul that he has no secrets for me. I look right through him, as it were. I can imagine that he feels that and doesn’t always like it. I wish he got used to it, haha. What you write, that when I let go more he then pulls more, that’s right. I have often experienced that. At this moment I cannot let go of him, I feel very much in love and allow myself to feel that for a moment. (Unknown)
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It is indeed very difficult at times to revive yourself and move on and to do the things that you want to do with heart and soul and wonder of wonders I can do that! You don’t want to ignore the grief, but at a moment like that! For me, this is the way to survive in a sensible world with rules and roles that should be played to the end, even if you do it yourself a lot. Can completely lose myself in the role I am playing now, because I don’t have to pretend otherwise, and how I would like to lose myself in Love. Strong everyone and dear greetings. (Unknown)
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Be in love !!! Admit that, even if it hurts !! Enjoy it even. Allow yourself to feel all this intense. It will only help you grow more. And if all goes well, you pick up yourself again and you can continue. In other words: FOLLOW YOUR HEART and do not play too many roles and certainly not the roles that others have intended for you. Be responsible, but FOLLOW YOUR HEART !!! Well, now I have to do it too … hahaha … (Unknown)
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Be in love? yes, over my ears, how can you follow your heart if your twin wants you to let her go, how do you do that? if i follow my heart i want only one thing and that is to twin who still have a nice and happy relationship.i can not go with that in love, you really have to use your mind! (Unknown)
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By FOLLOW YOUR HEART I mean that you have to listen to what your inner self tells you, that you have to make choices that are closest to your self. Choices not only related to your twin. But also choices that have to do with roles that you do or do not want to play. ‘Choose’ for yourself. I also write, be responsible. And by that I mean indeed that you cannot follow your feelings like crazy, you are not only there are other people involved, especially your twin. If you do not treat your twin with respect, you will not follow your heart and you will not be on the right track. And yes, you can enjoy your intense feeling for your twin. Not all days, certainly not. I also experience that it is often too heavy to wear than that you can enjoy it. But some days I can be really grateful that I can love my twin so much. My whole body then breathes love. You will understand what I mean by the above. La! ate it come over you; enjoy when you can and have sorrow when there is sorrow. Go through it, GO WITH THE FLOW, you have no other choice. If you listen to your inner self you will find that in this case it will be the right choice. The more you fight it, the longer it will last, the deeper your pain will be. Lives (Unknown) If you listen to your inner self you will find that in this case it will be the right choice. The more you fight it, the longer it will last, the deeper your pain will be. Lives (Unknown) If you listen to your inner self you will find that in this case it will be the right choice. The more you fight it, the longer it will last, the deeper your pain will be. Lives (Unknown)
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Thank you for your explanation, yes that feeling of love, being filled with love I have that very often and therefore I can now continue. sometimes you no longer know what respect for your twin is, sometimes hear such opposite answers, if I listen to my own feelings then I know, no matter how difficult I find that, then I look at the roles I want to play and those are clear to myself..sweet (Unknown)
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Stay very close to yourself and follow your heart. Sometimes that idd can also mean that you still have to play a role (temporarily) to finish something in this life. You are the only one who knows very deeply what is good for you and is not distracted by the opinions of others. Love (forever)
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I / we (twin and I) are also in my last life. I have known my twin from the womb. I have developed the Vanishing Twin Syndrome. When I saw my twin again the VTS suddenly disappeared. Then it came back, just a lot less strong. Win and I only have telepathic contact with each other. Your reaction could be his reaction. He is also married and it is not our time either. I once read that twinflames in come together in their last life, I was wondering if you know anything about it (Unknown)
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I have taken your answer to heart, the one who said that I had to allow myself to fall in love. I try as much as possible to really be myself, not to play roles, although that is not easy. I never talk about it and I will never do it, except against twin itself perhaps when the time comes. What I often wonder is whether he has the same feelings of love as I do. And if I listen very honestly to my heart, then I know the answer. I can see it in him, I can feel it in the atmosphere between us, hear it in his voice, and see it in his eyes. Another question to the person (I assume a man) who responded to this question about his twinflame having a relationship; how do you deal with her Does your hair show you something about your feelings? (Unknown)