Q0514. Vulnerable and dependent?

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After many years of finally coming home to you. Who you really are. That is the feeling that we both have. Both my twin and me. We are for each other. Can talk and feel for hours together and also enjoy each other physically. It is actually talking with … and especially feeling yourself. Talking without words. Seeing yourself and recognizing yourself with the other. Confronting, beautiful and also very painful. The feeling of amputation. Missing something we would like to have, but not knowing how to deal with it. Know since this week and have now also really felt what I want and can do with it. Discovering … that I can and may be vulnerable and dependent. Without being rejected Or feeling. I no longer have to position myself as the strong one in the life I have lived so far. Or let it live. I can finally be myself. I am so grateful to my twin that I want to shout it off the rooftops. I have been allowed to share and give this and feel it. Pure and pure and intensely honest. No words to describe. What I love about my twin being that she is deeply anchored in my heart will be present forever. It is so …

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so nicely and so intensely I experience it, and yes it may be, I put all other stories aside, it is different for everyone again but for twin and me it is as it is, intensely sweet and it may be there for us are completely !! fragile and dependent on what’s wrong with that, you get the best together than great anyway! (Unknown)

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With your twin you can be vulnerable because you will never hurt each other on purpose, you may only be hurt because you show the other something / learn with your twin you can be open, who you are so I feel that I am also dependent you can not be right but you can depend on each other’s love. if my twin made me feel that he / she would no longer want to hear / see me because he / she says he hates me then I would feel terribly rejected, but I would immediately know that he / she is lying because then so you should hate yourself. I think that depending on each other’s support is best, that is love in adversity and adversity, but let the other person cover his / her own beans until you are both ready. (Unknown)

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Lovely, if you can and may be yourself, whether you are male or female. Men and women get a certain stamp in this life from the outside world about how they should be. With your twin it doesn’t matter, you can just be who you are, love is love, man or woman and together you are complete, 1 whole. Enjoy it, I enjoy it with you! (Unknown)

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Yes, that outside world and all its prejudices. Even as a child your ideas are imprinted which your parents also received after their parents. And now you have it. At least I do. I suffer from limiting beliefs, “hear” my parents judge if I even only think of my twin: “It is not possible, is not allowed, is not normal, I would be cheating by just thinking about him, my partner had to let me know, I don’t track down, just think of myself, am naive, not worthy of my partner ”and I can go on for a long time. I always succeed a little better to put that aside and to feel that this is not mine. I know who I am and I can be who I am, with all my feelings. Yes, I can also love more men than just my partner. And no, I do not share that with him because this would cause unnecessary pain and misunderstanding. Hypocritical? No, that is the label that many outsiders would put on it. I don’t actually do anything with it, in the sense that! I also have physical contact with my twin. But I cannot rule out that this will never happen. We have been in situations where that could very well have happened if he hadn’t run away … What I want to say is that a twinflame relationship is something special that you as a person can enjoy and be thankful that you can experience it. (Unknown)

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Thank you for the heartwarming reactions! (Unknown)

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My soul love unfortunately does not tolerate my vulnerability … is immediately cut off; I don’t understand why. (Unknown)

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If you are far in your development then you will shit on what others think of you, even if it is your parents, your partner, your friends. you don’t have to hurt them if you tell your own truth but you can be who you want to be according to me. as twinflames you have to show that old relationship patterns have been imposed, conceived by people. that you now want to grow that you know..then you are pure and honestly working towards my idea and you also send a clear signal to your environment .. as a well-developed soul or do I miss something? (Unknown)

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Sometimes I wish I could be less vulnerable towards my twin. From the very beginning I have only been able to approach him from my soul, even if he constantly rejected me. In the beginning I was amazed by my own openness towards a person who was “stranger to me”. Because he kept denying, I sometimes agreed with my “EGO” (haha) that I would just respond bluntly, but in one way or another I still can’t manage it. He does and can, however, with a huge EGO very tough for me, and that always hits me very deeply. I think it will be incredibly beautiful if there is ever a day when we can both be open and vulnerable to each other. (Unknown)

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A process that you have to take your time for, but it is probably different for everyone else. (Unknown)

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I have chosen Love, in all my being, with all my openness and vulnerability, very clear, but is it ego to keep a distance or is it just to keep yourself in a second place in the earthly way as it is, am not dependent but miss her enormously and am sometimes very sad about it, I take a distance to protect myself and know what is going on inside of me and that only feels a lot of Love with an L for my love (An open and vulnerable soul)

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How nice to be and to be there for you in everything that is. Receive and experience and we will grow together. Love …. sweet questioner (unknown)

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I think that it is certainly not an ego to keep your distance, especially if you are not yet ready to contact your twin, perhaps you are not supposed to have any contact at all. It is also your right to state that towards your twin. But do it lovingly, keep in mind that he / she is open and vulnerable at that moment, just like you. If you can’t handle it, just don’t respond but never chop a blunt ax because it will make everyone sad, twin or not. (Unknown)

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Maybe as a twins you are sometimes clear but a blunt ax? that penetrates into your entire being. would like so much contact, mail for example. then you can calmly see what the other person means and then you can approach each other in a sweet way. feel that my twin thinks it is scary but I think it is all right, how twin’s goes that I am at peace with because I know that Love is there anyway. if only we had direct contact it would be great to grow together, to express feelings, that is what we want, it would be so enriching. (Unknown)

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I am ready to have contact, that is not but whether my twin is ready, that is the question so you keep yourself in the background, logically anyway, what do you bring back to the other if there is not is ready … suddenly it will be okay that I know. (Unknown)