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I am sometimes so confused about my twin, do not know if my twin wants to see me or not, would like to see him again but then let go, because I read that here on this site. just want to see him. Is that good or you should not contact us. have no expectations just to be close. is that good or not? don’t know, don’t know him that long, but I get very confused by the things he says.
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For me, ‘letting go’ means letting go of the dependence on others. Making your own choices and living your own life, without basing that on what your soul love does. Seeing each other and going your own way at the same time can sometimes go well together, according to stories. Sometimes not because it is too emotional or because that can make you more dependent on each other. You can try to follow your intuition more and less your emotions. (Tiny)
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For me, letting go means living your own life independently of each other, first completely completing your own path, despite the great desire to be together. I learned to let go when my twin continued to deny, it made me crazy, but then I realized that we first had to complete our own path. Not knowing when he is ready and not knowing when I am ready, but fully confident that we will one day be together and that we will wait for each other. I know my path and that is not always easy. It feels like a double life but I know what I am doing it for and I don’t have to feel guilty about it, the big picture is clearer than ever. Sometimes it can be useful to have a look at your blueprint, also know that I was allowed to do so because how else could I live with what I know …… .. I want nothing more than contact with my twin, but I also know that it would get out of hand completely because the desire for it is so great, from both sides. And that is just not the intention !! Can barely hide my feelings when I see him so I withdraw, I am far too afraid that it will also be visible to my environment. This just can’t go wrong, I still care too much about it for my partner and he could never understand. He lives fully in the 3rd dimension and will never be able to reach that 4th dimension in this life, where we are all going now. That is his blueprint. I thought it would be easier for me if I knew about my twin, but it is even harder now that I notice that he is pulling on me, he is having trouble letting me go. Letting go is a “magic word” because if you are supposed to stay together in this life, it will be arranged up there. Sweet, I love you so much, but it’s not allowed yet! Our time is coming, really, and then we can often sit under the stars together. (Unknown)
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You soon notice when the ego wants to be in the foreground. If you approach your ego with love, it is as if you feel the ego shrink. As you learn how to deal with your ego, you will notice that the struggle within you is diminishing and you become more aware of your inner feeling. Once you are on the right track by trusting your inner feeling, you will also come to the realization of what letting go actually means. (Unknown)
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If you could let go of the desire then you might see each other very occasionally, then you will feel that love too. you don’t have to do anything for that, but what I find so difficult is that you have to get away from each other again, but maybe you can get used to that too … because of misunderstandings, my twin thinks I don’t want to see him at all anymore. I can now let go of much better expectations because I am confident that one day it will be okay. I am happy now with my own life but always without a twin, I don’t have to think about it. hold on to the trust I have in my twin, it took a long time but it is now fully there I notice … it has been a whole learning process. so yes maybe you can have contact, letting go is letting go of expectations but not of love.
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Nicely worded, that last answer, exactly as I experienced it. Once you realize how your ego works, letting go is no longer difficult. (Unknown)
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That is exactly how it works for me. And it is true that this is a whole learning process. Heavy and long. At the moment I am again in a period when I consciously distance myself from twinflames. I don’t want to have it close because I think I was doing too much. Almost an obsession. I did not return to my normal life. Now I have put him in a distance in my mind, sort of blocked. Every time he turns up in my head, I consciously turn this off. I send him away, lovingly, yes. And I send him positive energy so that he can continue his life. The strange thing is that he seems to feel the distance because in those periods he tries to find more contact than usual. (Unknown)
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Yes, I know that blocking, I do sometimes, but when my twin does it feels empty and closed off from a part of yourself … so I don’t think that is such a good solution. we have no contact but closing / blocking the contact in this way is very drastic. Then suddenly I feel my twin again as if he still sends me love again, thought for a moment that I am not doing something right and then suddenly there is that love feeling that energy again. sometimes you have to close yourself to get everything clear without your twin. (Unknown)
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You know what is so difficult when your twin says one moment that he is what you need for you and the other moment says that he wants to block you in his life in his mind. very difficult this way (Unknown)
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Response to the last response; If you manage to realize that it is not meant for you personally, then you are already a long way off, such a reaction is always out of self-protection of your twin. If you clearly have everything in a row for yourself, then it helps to empathize with the situation of your twin, it always works with me! If you feel hurt / attacked or attacked by your twin, try to imagine (and sometimes you have to go very deeply) how you would react in his situation. I have noticed to myself that in the end I always understand why he reacts the way he does, probably I would have reacted the same in his situation, how could it be otherwise if you are twins. My twin can also give rake (unexpected) blows so that I am completely out of the field for a moment, but I notice that I am getting back to class faster and faster because I understand how it works. Sometimes it is even predictable and I know in advance how he will respond when there! has occurred. Letting go is also letting go of expectations, strength! Love (forever)