Q0488. Fear of losing my twinflame?

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What I really wanted to know is that my sister often teases me by saying that she can feel my twin and that she can imagine how and a good bond she and my mother will have with him, she knows it makes me mad because it gives me the feeling that she wants to take it away from me and that really makes me crazy !!!! Could it be that she feels my twin? And does this mean that they may also be soulmates, but to be honest, I don’t think he would agree with her, and if me and my twin are 1, would she have to be a soulmate of both of us? I think rather that she is a former enemy with which we must find forgiveness, as I had already read here !! What do you think, I am so extremely scared, she has already ruined so many relationships of mine because of her gossip and lies !!!! I’m just afraid that one day she will claim to be his twin (or if I am no longer there, take it away) it makes me so crazy that I feel like not being there anymore !!!!! Nogtans am I the one who tries so much effort and everything here corresponds to twin love ??? But why do I feel that she is going to be in love with him, I hope I imagine it or something, but I am very scared, and if this is going to be true then I hope! I really never see him again, I have had a bad luck all my life and I can’t have that! I hope I imagine it or something but I am very scared, and if this is the case then I hope! I really never see him again, I have had a bad luck all my life and I can’t have that! I hope I imagine it or something but I am very scared, and if this is the case then I hope! I really never see him again, I have had a bad luck all my life and I can’t have that!

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If you are twins you know that and then you know that you can never forget each other again .. when I understood that there was no reason for me to be afraid of sister or girlfriend or anyone else .. I know that we belong together no matter what happens .. and whoever tries to be among them .. one time the cover comes and you no longer want soulmates or others then there is only one thing that makes you happy and that’s you twin..and twins know that. (Unknown)

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This is not a fear of your twinflame, but a fear of your sister, if I read it that way. Go break all contact with her. It is not good for your soul growth !!! For the time being, try to lead your life away from your twinflame / soul size. I do that too, with a few rules of thumb that work pretty well. Here are my rules of thumb: 1 Souls rejoice in each other’s happiness 2 In which corner / where should I look? 3 Not going to flea in those few years of happiness, but always keeping an eye on the common thread or the big picture 4 What have I pretty much had and what can I still do? Good luck and have no fear of your sister or anyone else (Unknown)

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She may fall in love with your twin and maybe your twin likes her too, but if you are twins she will never get involved .. and gossip and lies I would turn away from it .. I can not stand it anymore and keep me far from it. contiguous is horrible and that kind of people I want to deal with as little as possible .. strength with a ‘relative’ that makes it so difficult for you .. but if it is a soulmate then she would not have made it so difficult for you, soulmates for each other, are good for each other, help each other, sometimes I think sometimes my ex was perhaps more a soulmate than the ex of my twin, where he has it so hard and who has him in her power .. and if if it has been your enemy then she has grabbed you back enough this seems to me … just don’t believe it anymore .. You also maintain karma if you believe in it .. now live as well as possible and don’t get upset … if it’s a soulmate of your twin it’s also ee! n soulmate of yours..and if not then it is not a soulmate..do not let anyone gain power over you, you are your own boss in love and in your relationship with your twin..give a kick in the ass for fear. (Unknown )

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Thank you all for your answers and the effort! It helped me a lot, and no she is not a soulmate, but I think we have a lot of karma to finish with her and oh yes one thing I don’t understand !!! How can he like her if she is someone who makes me feel bad all the time, he will not feel that pain and also a bit of negative feelings towards her because I also have it and I also telepathically told him that I and her can not find it so that he can know this in advance !! I would not like it if they got along but yes I will not hide my family, in addition, if he really is my twin and a good person, will he always go for me and remain loyal to me for sure? Or can a twin be rotten and bad and deceitful? hmmm I really don’t get that feeling with him !!! Can he really like her while she keeps hurting me and maybe fighting? Does he not feel it? (Unknown)

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Yes, I recognize that you actually already feel a bit disgusted by someone because it hurts your twin .. but as a twin you also often look through those nasty things, at least I have that, I can’t get so angry anymore because I always see the piece behind why people act like that .. other energy and such .. but if they hurt my twin, because then I feel it with my twin, in myself, I catch myself being still I am angry and sometimes I throw out something that is not so loving .. and then I want my twin to stand up for itself .. but yes you all have your own will and your own decisions. (Unknown)