Q0415. What is harder?

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What is harder let go of each other and not see at all anymore or meet each other every now and then without expecting too much, attracting and repelling what is sometimes added? notice that I just can no longer let go, and have discovered that letting go is not necessary, but letting go of expectations and wishes. that is letting go for me now! had a sort of aha moment, sat in the car, dull and sad, and then it dawned on me; I have to let go of my expectations and just enjoy the moment of contact, because that is the most important thing for me. so hope that my twin is not yet stacked up and that my twin still wants contact? attracting and repelling is also useful, hopefully it will be easier if I would get the peace that I would see him regularly and feel our love just by being together. what is your experience with this? what’s harder?

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Letting go is better now, trusting myself, my life, is the best for me now. I continue to believe in it and have faith that everything will be fine. what can happen to me, my twin loves me and knowing that is so beautiful, that is enough for now, I am alive and I have set my expectations aside again. it sounds that simple and it has been so difficult to get there. I trust that everything will come as it should … love (Me)

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It depends on what kind of situation you are in, my twinflame already had a different relationship and lived together, I was able to keep it up for 3 years, but I just couldn’t take it anymore. I am a person with feelings and unfortunately also an ego, I have tried for 3 years to change myself and to be happy with what I had, but I could not do it !! this in particular because I don’t want to be the 3rd wheel on the car. Now that I have chosen for myself there is a lack, but before that the peace returns, and with it also the real wholeness in my soul, which was so torn between mind and feeling. I think it’s great if people can share and let someone go completely, but every situation is different and you have written too little about your situation. although I think that attracting and repelling is just as good, Whether you have the space to see each other or not, the confrontation is within yourself, and with it everything that is attached to the ego. letting go seems much worse than it is, in fact there is no distance only that you create yourself, if someone is in your heart you allow each other peace if it does not work, and let go! It worked for me and god knows how deep I went, and I always thought I would never make it without him, but I can easily do that. Do not throw yourself away, love is an open and pure something that cannot be described, but above all love yourself, after all, that is what you actually come here for on earth, otherwise you cannot give anything to another. A lot of strength and success, for both of you … .. (Unknown) letting go seems much worse than it is, in fact there is no distance only that you create yourself, if someone is in your heart you allow each other peace if it does not work, and let go! It worked for me and god knows how deep I went, and I always thought I would never make it without him, but I can easily do that. Do not throw yourself away, love is an open and pure something that cannot be described, but above all love yourself, after all, that is what you actually come here for on earth, otherwise you cannot give anything to another. A lot of strength and success, for both of you … .. (Unknown) letting go seems much worse than it is, in fact there is no distance only that you create yourself, if someone is in your heart you allow each other peace if it does not work, and let go! It worked for me and god knows how deep I went, and I always thought I would never make it without him, but I can easily do that. Do not throw yourself away, love is an open and pure something that cannot be described, but above all love yourself, after all, that is what you actually come here for on earth, otherwise you cannot give anything to another. A lot of strength and success, for both of you … .. (Unknown) and I always thought that I would never manage without him, but I can easily do that. Do not throw yourself away, love is an open and pure something that cannot be described, but above all love yourself, after all, that is what you actually come here for on earth, otherwise you cannot give anything to another. A lot of strength and success, for both of you … .. (Unknown) and I always thought that I would never manage without him, but I can easily do that. Do not throw yourself away, love is an open and pure something that cannot be described, but above all love yourself, after all, that is what you actually come here for on earth, otherwise you cannot give anything to another. A lot of strength and success, for both of you … .. (Unknown)

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I don’t know what is better; I think it will be clear when you are ready. (Unknown)

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but if you love yourself then you also love your ‘other’ half and I would never want to be a third wheel, but you can have contact in different ways, then you can at least help each other grow and yes how it goes then? but totally letting go is too difficult in some cases. I am sorry that my twin has such doubts and uncertainty and I do not know if I want to be able to go along with that for a long time? because if you do know that you cannot live without the other person, then you go for it (I did, in everything!) what else do you want in life? that is honestly choosing for and with your heart, this is the only true Love, the Love from above, you no longer doubt that! Forget all your uncertainty and fears and jump, I would say. And yes it can no longer be at the expense of myself ..

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Letting go is much easier I think. But that applies to everything I do: either I completely fall into it or I stay totally out of it. Occasionally socializing together and mirroring the twin I find nothing. The pain and lack afterwards it is not worth it to me. (Unknown)